I would like to be kidnapped and immobilized for a few days

How long have you already been living out your kinky side, and how did you come to that?

In my childhood, I really liked movies in which boys get kidnapped. In one of the movies a guy in formal cloths has been kidnapped. The bad guys tape gagged him and tied him up. To see that was even at such a young age a total turn-on for me and I tried to re-anact that scene by myself. I weard formal cloths, taped my eyes and mouth and I tried some light self bondage. And then I imagined that I was helpless …

Some years later during my college time I’ve got the chance to use the internet. The first porn page I’ve visited was “TieGuyUK”. I loved it because they showed what I liked since the time I’ve told you before. To see the guys taped and helpless was just great and I was fantasizing myself into their vulnerable position. It was a sad moment as this website has been taken offline.

Since 2007 I’m using Recon. Gark88 my nick is like my alter-ego which is showing my dark side. It was great to chat with pepople with similar interests and to meet great guys you have chatted with. But to be honest, I still struggle a little with my fetish side. Here in Asia our society, culture and mindset is not as open as in Europe. But I am optimistic and I think at the end love will win and one day we will be able to live our kinks the way we want.

Gark88

1988

Malaysia

I like to be tied and taped, but I don’t really like sex

What’s especially important for you there?

I really like the to be gagged, taped and of course good bondage but I’m not really a sex guy. Such bondage sessions haven’t to include things like fucking, sucking etc. and pain and extreme stuff is definitely not my thing. Probably that sounds boring for some guys but that is the way I like to live it. Chatting online I’ve found nice guys who are into the same and we have had great sessions. But I’m very careful and I like to chat first for a while before meeting people in real life. I want to be sure that it is clear what I want and what my limits are. I just want to be on the safe side.

To be honest if it is about taping you can really catch me very fast. It is my main fetish. Even if I masturbate I love to tape myself. I love to tape my dick like a condome and also to ejaculate into the tape. This way I can also prevent to make a big mess with my cum. 🙂

Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?

Tape is a huge turn-on for me, i like all kind of tapes. I also like being taped up, tied up with rope in different positions (spread eagle,hogtied and so on), tight gagged (stuff something inside with few layers of tape wrap), blindfolded, wearing ear plugs, to play with dildos and plugs, wearing chasity devices, kidnap scenes, mummification, edging, wearing a straightjacket, lying in a bondage bag, etc. …. inn general immobilisation and feeling like an object is great. If we talk about gear so i love sports wear, uniform, jersey, formal cloths. , . I am very enjoying it if I can’t see, talk, hear and move. The tightness and to be fixed and helpless makes me really horny 🙂

What kind of guys do you like?

As a lover I really like to have a care taking person, someone who is kind and lovely but at the same time he should also be into kinks so that we can play together. I dream of a cute nice guy with who I can spend first a romantic evening but than during the night he takes controle and I can become his doll he can do whatever he like. I would love to sleep blindfolded, tied, gagged and in bondage next to him and to wake up in this position while the next normal day starts.

If we talk about play partners then I just have to see that we share the interestes and that I’ll be safe and that he respects my limits. Then I’m ready also to explore new things.

What was your hottest experience until now?

I’ve had a lot of memorable experiences and it is really hard for me to choose. I am happy about every session I’ve had. Here I present four of my best experiences:

First (Mummification) – I met a master in London. I was traveling alone to London and met him. The sessions were unforgettable. He brought me to his playroom and I was impressed about his bondage skills. He tied me in different positions such like hogtied and i’ve had my first suspension experience with him. It was my first time hanging in the sky. The rope was tight and I was immobilized. I liked the feeling and it made me very horny. He also mummified me with green tape and tied me to the pole bar. The first session was so incredible that I’ve had to meet him again the next day.

Second (Hotel kidnap) – I met someone in a hotel room. He left some self bondage instructions in the room so that I’ve had to wait tied and blindfolded. After a while he has arrived and he started to tie me up and then he put me into chasity. At the end of the session he put me into a straightjacket and I slept for few hours this way. To be honest i still feel a liittle bad because he didn’t seep as he was taking care of me to be sure that I’m safe.

Third (group fun) – I was traveling with my partner in crime and we have visited a friend. He tied us both in different styles along the holiday. There have been some extraordenary moments like having sushi and sake on top of a mummyfied boy, to be tied in fundoshi and so on)

Forth (kidnap) – I waited someone in quiet place, he kidnapped me from behind and brought me into his car. I was taped up along the journey to his house. He carried me from his car into the house and started the session. I was only able to see his face after the end of the session.

Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?

I still have a lot that I would like to try such as lying in a vacuum bag, action in baseball uniform, kinbaku, tied in wetsuit or rubber suit and others. Furthermore, I want to try long term bondage (more than 1 day) and of course I want to be kidnapped for a few days. I want to be objectified and immobilized for a few days etc. But as I’ve mentioned before, my ultimate fantasy is to find the perfect partner to live the normal life during the day and the kink life in the nights.