Hey Pup Plum! Thanks for the question. It’s one of those thoughts that pops into many minds when they first witness a hand disappearing into the abyss. Fear not, we’ve got the answer for you. I’ve brought in a certified Fisting Maestro to join forces with me and tackle this question head-on. Enter SKYDEVIL, probably a familiar face from numerous Fisting Porn Movies.
The quick answer to your question: Yes, it can if you don’t approach it right. However, follow some crucial rules, and you’ll avoid any mishaps. Skydevil has been fisting for years, with a wild and intense style, and I guarantee you, from personal experience, that his butt is neither wrecked nor stretched out. Or are you dealing with some secret incontinence issues I’m not aware of?
Skydevil
he/him | Gay | Switzerland
Skydevil is a former Fist Porn Actor who graced the screens for Raging Stallion and Berlinstarfilm. He turned his passion into a part-time profession, showcasing his adventurous spirit in front of the camera.
Skydevil: Hehe, definitely not. Everything stays put with me until I decide to let it out. But yeah, over the years, there’s been a rise in butt mishaps. In my opinion, it has a lot to do with social media and OnlyFans. People crave clicks, so there’s a flood of extreme videos and images that paint a skewed picture of what Ass Play and Fisting are all about.
Punching and prolapsing, the whole “Rosebud” situation, is definitely not the essence of Fisting, especially not for beginners. Let’s keep it real, folks!
That caught my attention too. Personally, when it comes to Rosebuds, I don’t really find the whole thing appealing. But hey, that’s just my take, and I think we should dive into this topic in a separate article soon.
I must say, I’d love to expand on the question a bit and touch on the broader topic of Ass-Play, which includes Fisting. Let’s take it literally for a moment. It’s all about playing with your partner’s rear end, focusing on those intense anal sensations you can create. Sure, many of you enjoy experimenting with dildos and plugs, but I guarantee you, fingers can evoke way more pleasure than the in-and-out motion of a dildo. Let’s explore the art of ass-play!
You got it! I couldn’t agree more. Just with the sphincter alone, there are so many incredibly pleasurable areas that a dildo won’t quite hit. It doesn’t always require a full hand – what you need is finesse. Just one or two fingers, massaging the inside of the sphincter, can bring about a whole world of good feelings and pleasure. It’s all about that delicate touch!
You just mentioned the SPHINCTER, the gateway to anal delight. I believe we’ve hit the nail on the head of the question because when we talk about a damaged or stretched-out rear end, we’re primarily referring to the sphincter. This is a muscle, and as everyone knows from the gym, muscles can be trained, but it has to be done right. In the gym, you warm up first before hitting the weights, and you gradually increase the intensity. The same principle applies!
Exactly! Through gentle training, gradually pushing boundaries, you learn to control the muscle, train it, and stretch it in a way that enhances flexibility without compromising its ability to close.
But hey, it takes time and practice. Don’t bite off more than you can chew. And if, during playtime, things aren’t working out, don’t force it. Otherwise, you risk causing some damage. I always advise against using rigid toys. Opt for soft silicone toys. When it comes to stretching, I recommend tapered dildos – ones that gradually increase in width.
With old and rigid toys or other hard objects you decide to insert, the risk of muscle tears and fissures is much higher. Just take your time with self-play. Believe me, regular Ass-Play can be damn exciting on its own. It doesn’t always have to be the fist, even though I do have a soft spot for it.
Absolutely! Take the time to explore and play with yourself. Trust me, regular Ass-Play can be incredibly satisfying. It doesn’t always have to be the fist, even though I have a soft spot for it.
Haha, you are instiable. Sometimes it’s almost alarming.
Once you’ve had your solo playtime and decide to add some human assistance – yeah, I’m calling us Tops “assistance” now – I strongly advise picking your partner wisely. Especially since things can get a bit delicate back there, the selection process is crucial. As is often the case in the fetish world, trust is the foundation. Only when you trust your play partner can you truly relax. And trust me, relaxation is key in Ass-Play, especially in Fisting.
As with most Tops, it’s immensely helpful if the Top knows what they’re doing and has experience. And let’s be real, watching a 20-minute clip on Pornhub doesn’t qualify as experience. Also, one of the fundamental rules of Ass-Play (and I know many Masters like me might not love hearing this, but it’s crucial): THERE IS NOTHING MORE DOMINANT THAN THE BOTTOM’S ASS.
Yeah, the Top should do what the Bottom wants, or let’s put it this way, what the Bottom’s booty allows.
You’re enjoying this, aren’t you? Suddenly playing the boss.
I’m a Fistee through and through, but believe me, I also love getting my hands dirty. By the way, you’ve been inside me a few times, how about we flip the script on that?”
In your dreams, maybe. But in reality, I just say: Forget about it! 😉
Now, back to the topic: As a Top, it’s crucial to feel and understand what the bottom’s booty desires and allows. Sure, over time, you can explore limits, but initially, it’s about building a kind of anal trust. When the bottom senses they’re in safe hands, or with safe hands inside them, they can relax and truly let themselves play – which, let’s be honest, is something us Tops enjoy too.
Absolutely, especially as a beginner, relaxing isn’t the easiest task. That brings us back to the training aspect because, especially in the early stages, it might be an exhilarating sensation, but it’s also unfamiliar and can occasionally be a bit painful. It’s better to take one too many breaks than to force things because, let’s be honest, pushing too hard can wreck the booty. And hey, in between, there are plenty of other exciting things to do that give the rear end a break.
Even for me, as an experienced Fistee, trust is paramount. I want to know who’s exploring my insides, what they’re capable of, feel a connection, and be comfortable enough to let loose. If I have to worry constantly about things going south, I can’t enjoy it as much as I’d like. Let’s be real; it’s all about pleasure, fun, lust, and the sensual shared experience, not about setting records, having the wildest Twitter pic, or the most extreme OnlyFans video.
Dear Pup Plum, this topic is one we could talk about for hours. Skydevil is kind enough to provide a Fisting Basic Turorial, linked below. But let’s summarize our response to your question:
Yeah, if you don’t pay attention and dive into the world of Ass-Play and fisting too quickly or the wrong way, you might end up breaking your booty. That’s why we’ve got some key principles to keep in mind:
- Training is Key: Take it slow, warm-up, and gradually increase intensity. Training helps the sphincter gain flexibility without losing its ability to close.
- Choose Wisely: When involving another person, especially as a Top, trust is crucial. Establish a sense of anal trust, allowing the bottom to feel secure and truly enjoy the experience.
- Relaxation is Crucial: Whether a beginner or experienced, relaxing is essential. If it hurts, take a break – forcing things can lead to damage. There’s more to enjoy in between, giving the booty a well-deserved pause. Play with the ass – not against it.
- Equipment and Preparation: When playing with toys, opt for high-quality and soft ones. Sure, they may cost more, but you’ll have more fun, and the risk of mishaps is significantly lower. And make sure those fingernails are trimmed.
Last but not least, never forget that it’s about enjoyment. The focus should be on pleasure, fun, and the shared sensual experience, not about records or extreme social media posts.
We’ve compiled the key tips from Skydevil in the following tutorial for your pleasure.
