Yami

1990 | 178 cm | 70 kg
London (UK)

That feeling when someone successfully pushes me a bit further, is what I do it for.

How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?

I’ve been experimenting with kink since I started uni 8 years ago. Some friends invited me to an obscure party in Belgium and I immediately got hooked on fetish. I even documented my thesis on fetish and sexuality in the gay community.

Ever since, my professional and fetish life have grown together and now I work for Addikt, a pretty cool new fetish company. I’m definitely living and breathing fetish and want to keep doing it.

Whats especially important for you there?

The social aspect. I always try to connect with people on a more personal level before I get horny with them.

I’ve got a huge weak spot for guys who like to ‘enable’ new kinks in me. That feeling when someone successfully pushes me a bit further, is what I do it for.

Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?

From time to time I have just casual sex and it’s still amazing because there are no extra expectations, however when I’m playing with fetish and BDSM I really like rubber, restraint and sensory deprivation. All three immediately put me in my head-space.

Not knowing what’s coming next and knowing that my Dom is enjoying my reactions are really the core of almost every session I partake in.

What kind of guys do you like?

I’m all about the chemistry. There’s not one particular type of guy I like, but personality is key. I like guys who are trustworthy, kind and caring, but can also be greedy in the playroom.

Of course I like some eye candy too: smooth guys with longer hair in rubber do it every time.

What was your hottest experience until now?

Do I really have to pick one? Haha.

The hottest experience I ever had was a few years ago. A few friendly pups and I went on a wild camping trip in the Ardennes and we managed to not only take a tent, but also a full range of fetish gear.

During the whole weekend we didn’t see one single person and it really felt like we had the whole world to ourselves so we could really get into an animalistic headspace. As time passed on the experience became increasingly feral, behaving as a pack, mating in the river and running around naked through the forest.

One night I ended up tied to a diy-sling we made, with everyone around me and it’s really then that I knew I’d reached the pinnacle of my own sexuality.

I still have no idea how long that session really took.

Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?

I’m open to ideas, but my main dream is to have a handler one day who I can feel both safe and free with. I don’t like possessive people, so that sadly eliminates a large group of guys already.

I just think there’s nothing better than enjoying the world together and getting out there instead of locking the doors to all the fun that’s to be had together.