HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Xavier. Today, you are turning 25… Time flies by … The shy teenager porn newbie has become a young, attractive man. But not only your appearance has changed. It seems also that your sexual life and your porn movies have become harder and kinkier. Can you tell how your kinks, desires and needs have changed during the last few years?
Hey MasterMarc, like you say, my style and my vision of sex as changed a lot between our last interview and now. I think I finally decided to leave the twink I was behind me and become a man, going to the gym, cut my hair and grow my beard. And in the sexual way, I think I discovered and learned about myself after my first shoot for BoyNapped, I can definitely say I’m a nasty bastard or a dirty piggy now, it’s up to you, ahah!
That is how boys should be. 🙂 What would you say are you into now? What is the kind of sex you really love, and which satisfies you?
I think between our last interview and now, I consider myself 80% top, so I like to be the dominant and in control i every situation. What am I into, or what are my kinks today? I don’t know my limits yet, but I definitely fist (only as top), piss, bondage (ropes, wax, toy play and more) and I also am learning how to be a pup master. I’m definitely into hard sex, vanilla is not for me any more!
It’s quite normal that if someone discovers SM that vanilla, and I am talking about only vanilla, isn’t really satisfying any more. But of course also SM has his tender vanilla moments if you live it long term. Btw. by watching your last scene with Ashton Bradley for BoyNapped it seems that you are also able to take more as bottom. Is that right?
It’s true as bottom, I can take a lot of pain too, but probably because I like pain. I mean, put wax on my body and I get hard! ?
I know in your private life you’re mostly top, but how submissive are you? Is it just something you do for work, or is this also an important side of you?
In my private life I’m definitely mostly top, but sometimes I can be in the bottom mood, it rarely happens but when it happens I can be really submissive…so it not only happens in the movies! ?
I like the most of the time to be submissive without getting fucked because i rarely do that! But I definitely like when a Dom chokes me with his dick, struggles me, spits on me, eats my ass and cums on my face…or ties me to the bed!
I’m A sadist, but not a monster.
That’s nice. During the BoyNapped production in Alicante, I have seen how much fun it was for you to kick Casper Ellis balls. We have been able to feel even your pleasant anticipation. You really seem to be a little sadist. How does it come?
I think I always have been a little devil inside! ? But with BoyNapped I discovered this sadist part of myself more. I feel people in pain more, and the more they are, the more I’m enjoying it! For example, when I choke someone with my dick, I like to see him cry otherwise it’s not fun! ?
My top 3 for how I like to see people in pain are balls play, when kicking, slapping and pinching them. Second there’s fisting, a good fist is when someone’s scream and cries only. And for finish wax, seeing the face of someone taking hot wax on him and screaming makes me hard! ? So am I a sadist? Haha.
Can you tell us, what exactly is the turn-on if you make others suffer?
I think I’m really into emotions and senses… hearing people screaming of pleasure and/or pain can provoke a pleasure inside me who makes me hard but also seeing someone crying or being in pain during sex just makes me really hard, it means I did a go job, and I’ve been dominant enough! It’s satisfaction for myself!
Can you torture everyone?
Everyone, I think even the cutest person in the world I would like to make cry, ahah! ?
For me, it is important to know, that the other loves and needs it. And I just torture boys I really like, so I wouldn’t be able to torture everyone.
I mean I will not torture a boy who doesn’t like that too, I’m a sadist but not a monster…I still have a heart deep inside, ahah! But I rarely choose a boy who likes that, vanilla boys are not for me… I prefer a dirty piggy or a naughty puppy! ?? I only choose boys who like that.
OK, OK … I know that you’re a real amicable boy, and it was real fun to see your action with Casper. Can you become even harder, dirtier and more humiliating?
Maybe…after all, I just start to discover myself and don’t know my limits yet! So who knows maybe in a few years, you will see me muscly and in leather during the fetish week in London, Paris or Berlin fisting a group of guys or even getting fisted myself!
You have told me that you are into pup play. Can you tell us why pet play is so attractive for you?
So I discovered pup play just after I started boynapped and being directly intrigued/curious about it! And it quickly became my thing…just seeing someone with a puppy mask gives me a boner! This is why today I want to learn more about it and become a puppy master or an alpha, who knows… I’m still novice with it for now! ?
What makes is so interesting for you?
I think pup play still is really close to bondage, and it keeps this story of Dom and sub… This is maybe why I like it a lot! With the plus of the mask and the tail!?
Time goes by
Are you also into piss and other dirty things?
Am I into dirty things? Definitely! Let’s start soft to hard, ahah! First i like dirty socks and underwear, like I said before I’m really into senses and strong smells turns me on! It’s the same with sweaty armpits, I like to smell or even lick them! ? The more a guy does smell, the more I will be tempted to fuck with him!
And after that I like piss a lot! What I like about it? I like the sensation of this hot liquid on my body or even in my mouth when I do as a sub but i like also to piss on people, it’s like a mark my territory on someone on pissing on him or in his ass! What is better than filling someone with his piss and then asking him to push it out! So hot! ?? And to be honest I sometimes piss on myself in the shower, this probably proof how much I like that!
I think that is the way most of kinky guys started with piss games. Do you drink it too? And why is to drink piss of another guy such a deep symbol?
I sometimes drink it but rarely, i prefer to feel it going all over my body! I think it such a deep symbol for the Dom and the sub, who piss on who and who marks his territory if I can say that like this…it’s a little bit like the dogs when they piss somewhere!
I think the following question is also important for a lot of your fans: What kind of man are you into?
I’m most of the time attracted to Latino guys, don’t ask me why? But I am like a Latino Magnet, ahah! After that I like small guys with a dirty mind more, the dirtier bad boy he is the more I will be into it! ??
But I’m also a lot attracted to older man, give me a 40 years old guy with muscle and a dirty mind too… And I become your man!
Not only your sexual behaviour has changed. You have also moved to the porn capital of the UK, to Manchester. How is life there compared with Paris you lived before?
Yes, it’s right! I recently moved to the U.K., to Manchester, the city of my heart! I had a crush for this one till the first time I have been there! My life is really different here compared to Paris, I have an amazing group of friends, I’m always busy between the porn shoot and other projects! And to be honest, when I don’t work, I focus on my personal projects or party (a lot)!
That sounds like a good step in life you’ve done. It was great to see you again, and I’m sure, we will meet soon again.
Xavier Sibley
1993
Manchester
United Kingdom
