One of the real classic fetish is the love for leather. But first it is one of the most expensive gear you can get, even more as we gays are into thick leather and it seems that most of us are addicted to brands, and second it has an image to be a fetish for older guys. The price is really a fact, but there are also young guys into leather. Today I’m talking with a real cute twink from Amsterdam, who is a real leather lover.
Hi Sylven, what is for you the attraction of leather? Why do you love this gear?
Hello MasterMarc. The first time I’ve been confronted with leather gear was during one of my first sessions with a Master. He was a real leather Master and I was enjoying my sub side with him. Of course during the session I’ve had contact with his gear and it felt interesting … warm, fine and natural. The smell of it made me really horny and I wanted to try it by myself because it was different to all the fetish gear like sportswear I was wearing before.
Leather Twink Sylven
1994
Netherlands
To wear it for the first time was a great feeling. It fits totally to my body like a second skin. It is soft on the skin and hard and limiting at the same time. And if you wear it, you smell it even more …. so you can imagine how horny I have became. 🙂 This hard limiting side of the material changes also your attitude. I was always sub but the leather made me feel manly and dominant.
So the feeling of leather on your skin does really change you? Can you explain us a little more, how it is changing you and why you don’t get this feeling by wearing other gear?
Yes, your mindset changes … The material has its own energy and gives you power and strenght. This strong hard leather on my skin gives me at the same time also the feeling of being protected. Nobody can harm you.
You look different in leather and people treat you different. Even as a young twink in leather (what is not so common) other fetish guys show you much more respect then if I would wear casual cloths as everyone does. You can feel this respect … this gives you power and that changes your attitude.
How important is leather during sex?
As I’ve told you before, even as a sub guy if I wear leather I am dominant. It changes the roleplay totally. I turn into another person. In this case my subs needs to listen and they can be sure if they do something wrong they will get punished. Of course I can also act as dom if I wearing other gear.
Of course thik leather is limiting your free moving space. That’s the reason why good sessions start in leather and boots end end in jocks. 🙂
Let us talk a little about what you tave told us before. You have told us, that leather makes you more dominant. I know that you are a switch but more bottom. So is leather just gear for tops? Can’t you be submissive if you’re wearing leather?
There are many leather subs. But I don’t have any experiences with sessions as sub in leather. I would need to try it first before giving you an answer to this question. I can just repeat that leather changes my mindset to a dominant role. As sub I’m wearing mostly PVC, rubber or sportswear. That makes me feel comfortable as subby …. and of course at the end I’m mostly naked so that the top can also use me the way he wants.
So let us talk about your sub side. That’s the side a Master like me is normally more interested in. 🙂 What kind of sub are you and what are you into?
Haha, so what kind of sub categories do you know? 🙂 I like to discover myself and to develope it by new experiences. Some years ago my boyfriend was working in the hardcore porn industry. So he is an excellent teacher and he was also the guy who with his new ideas developed my sub side more than all the other people.
Like many guys I started my sub carreer with fake handcuffs, blindfolds and gags while having wilder vanilla sex. 🙂 As longer we played as kinkier and harder it has become. Toys, electro sex boxes, dildos, plugs, ropes, etc. have become a normal part of our sexual life.
My boyfriend is top only. So with him I’m always a submissive bottom. That is what I am and what I also really know out of experience. I’m a sleazy fuck bottom and he can do what he wants. But i can also be nasty and bitchy when I feel that the top is not good or not giving his best.
I can imagine that you can be a very demanding bottom. How submissive are you, what are your limits and what kind of guys do you like?
Good questions. I start with the last one: For me the hole package is important. Of course everyone is at least a little superficial, so the first sight is important. I know, I’m a handsome guy and I can get many boys and men. But to be honest for me the inside of the person is much more important. The look you can change with cloths but the character you can’t change.
Total surrender is my nature as sub. I like that the top use me the way he wants for his pleasure. A good top knows how to play with limits and how to push boundaries. That is the difference between a session and a good session.
How open I am as sub is depending on the chemistry between the top and me. Trust is important and if there are good vibes I’ll be totally yours and you can do everything with me. I can be really nasty and I love if you piss on me. I’m ready to lick off the mess on the floor … you can use me as you want. If we have a good connection you will also feel my limits as they depend really from the situation. And belive me, there is still a lot I want to explore more. One of the first things I would love to have more experiences in is electro.
Let me talk again about the men I like. I love muscled daddies around 45 to 50 yars but of course also well trained guys around 30. If the dick is 19cm or more I’ll be happy. The guy has to be openminded and he has to know what he wants. Belive me, a guy can be the most handsome guy on earth, if I don’t like his character he’ll never get my ass.
Can you give us an insight into to one of your hottest sm experiences?
Haha, of course …. and I’m sure you know that it has been a session with my boyfriend. 🙂 He really loves to punish me. Probably I deserve it. 🙂 Ok, the evening I’m talking about I was really a bad boy. I didn’t listen to my boyfriend and I didn’t follow his orders. I was lying on my belly. he locked my legs in metal stocks so that i wasn’t anymore able to move, he blindfolded me and put a gag into my mouth. I was completely delivered. Than he start to whip my ass. At the beginning really soft and gentle … but with the time he has become harder and harder. After some minutes he replaced the gag by his dick. He made me suck it while he continued to whip my ass. As I was reaching my limits I asked him to stop but he didn’t listen to me and the strokes have become even harder. I felt really powerless in this situation. If you have a good connection the top knows better what you can take than yourself. And before it would have been really too much he stoped. My ass war shining red and I the pain I’ve had during the next day while I was sitting reminded me about my missbehaviour.
Are you a little pain pig? How important is pain for you and why do you like it?
No, I’m not a pain pig, hahahaha. Pain is not as important as the roleplay is. I want to feel inferior and I want to serve for the satisfaction of my top. But of course pain is part of the game. I like it because it makes you feel that it is real and that you get used. Halfhearted action is not really sex the way I want and I need.
You have told us at the beginning of our talk, that you love leather and it makes you dominant. How important is for you, that your Master is wearing leather?
During long sessions it is a big turn on if the Master wears leather. It lets me feel this primal urge of raw sex and it calls up my inner need to serve. So it is important but at the same time it isn’t, if the guy I’m with is a guy I like. Also other gear can be hot but also good action if both are naked can be satisfying. Of course leather has its price so it is difficult to find young leather boys, even if i really like to see young tops in leather.
So you think that more young guys should wear leather? Why should they do it and do you have any advice?
Yes they should! 🙂 It is a great feeling. But to be honest, everyone should explore his own needs by himself and not feeling obligated to wear something just because the others expect it. You know by yourself what you like. From my job at Mr. Riegillio, a store for leather and fetish gear, I know that you have to feel comfortable in what you’re wearing. Living fetish means to live yourself. If you want to buy leather so I can just advice to save money and to buy a good product. With cheap stuff you will not become happy.
And the most important advice: Be yourself, go to fetish parties, have (safe) fun, make friends and be happy!
Thank you, Sylven …. and the order of your advice shows me, that you’re really gay!
