I love control and pushing my limits

A “My Fetish Life” interview with Locke (24).

Locke Slave & Top 1991 / 24 6’1 / 186cm 195 lbs / 90kg Boston (US)

sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you come to that?

Locke: I have always known, on some level, that I’m kinky. When I was a little boy, maybe 3 or 4 years old, I had a book called “The Big Book of Knights and Castles” that I would have my father read to me.  There is one chapter on dungeons, which has a big picture in it of a muscular man in his underwear with his arms bound behind his back, hanging by his ankles from an iron ring suspended from the ceiling.  I remember having my father re-read that chapter to me as I stared at the picture until he asked “Don’t you want me to read you something else?”

When I was older, 10 years old or so, I used to play tie up games with my friends – where we would tie each other up and try to escape.  I remember playing one such game at summer camp and having a massive boner from it (and, being 10 years old and not yet familiar with masturbation, entirely confused as to why my penis was hard).

When I was 12 – I was looking at porn at a friend’s house when I saw a blond woman tied down by leather straps, with clamps on her nipples and a blindfold over her eyes. That’s when it definitely clicked – that my interest in bondage and control was something sexual. I remember thinking “this is it! This is what I’ve been looking for!”

I became sexually active with women when I was 17, and with men when I was 18. I tried to incorporate bondage into my sex play as quickly as possible. I tried some rope bondage on my girlfriend when I was 17 and the second guy I hooked up with cuffed my hands behind my back as he fucked my face and ass.

When I was 19, I found a Master, who I served for about 8 months. For the years after that, I have mostly been a Dom Top. I’ve hooked up with some 200+ guys since my first, and I’ve topped probably a good 90% of them. About half of those, I’ve either tied up, or put a collar on, or generally done some sort of kink play with them.  I even had a live in slave boy during my last year of college (university, to you non-americans). Recently though, I’ve been trying to explore my submissive side more.  Since about September 2015, I’ve been trying to be fully submissive.  The results thus far have been… underwhelming. I’ve yet to find a Dom I truly like, and I keep topping cute twinks between my bouts of submission.

sadOsam: What’s especially important for you there?

Locke: Control.

There’s that famous Oscar Wilde quote “Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.”  I love control – either having a boy completely under my power, or giving up control entirely to someone else.  The different forms this control takes vary. Cum control is very hot to me – chastity, edging, milking, not being allowed to cum, being forced to cum – all of those I find very hot.  I am also a huge fan of bondage. Ropes, chains, leather cuffs, stocks, it doesn’t matter – just the physical restraint I find very hot.

I love pushing my limits, and pushing the limits of boys I’m with. As a Dom, one of the hottest things is seeing the look on a boy’s face as he realizes he’s doing something he’s never done before, never thought about doing before, and discovering he loves it.

As for physical sensations, I really like nipple play – and I love having my ass stretched. I was fisted for the first time in December and greatly enjoyed it. I have my nipples pierced to make them more sensitive. I tried ecstasy with sex for the first time about a year ago, and have only done it maybe three or four times since – every time is incredible. Similarly, I’ve had Doms force poppers on me before, sometimes through gas masks, and I’ve found that to be an incredible experience as well – especially when I’m bound and can’t resist it.

sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?

Locke:  If I had to choose one, I think my biggest preference is sex slaves. I have this mental conception of a slave, locked in chastity, young and muscular/athletic, with his body kept smooth (maybe with a piercing or two), constantly used for his master’s pleasure.  As a top, I find boys like that the hottest. As a bottom, that’s the boy I like to be.

sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?

Locke: For bottoms, I prefer twinks. Smooth, athletic, young guys, who love cock.

For tops, I prefer muscular, bigger guys, usually a bit older than me, with some hair. I’m a fairly big guy myself (6’1/186 cm, 195 lbs/90 kilos, rugby build), so finding a Dom who I find physically intimidating is difficult, but is very hot when I do.

For both, intelligence, humor, and confidence matter a great deal. The hottest guys are the ones who know what they want – whether that’s a slutty, submissive bottom who knows he wants dick, or a big, muscular top who knows how he wants to use his slave boy.

sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?

Locke: God. So many. When I was 19, I had a 52 year old Master who would take me out to dinner, then take me home and have me serve him. Sometimes he’d tie me up, sometimes he’d fuck me, sometimes he’d just have me sit naked at his feet in a chastity device nuzzling against his thigh as he’d smoke a cigar and drink some whiskey. Any one of the many scenes I had with him were enormously hot.

When I lived in Australia, there was a bathhouse in Melbourne called Wet on Wellington that had an unders-30 night the first Monday of every month. They would card people at the door and not let anyone in. It completely changed the vibe of the bathhouse. Every month, about 120 twinks and jocks, all under the age, would crowd in there – playing naked volleyball in the pool, sitting and chatting in the hot tub, blowing each other in the sauna, fucking in the sling upstairs.  Orgies would spontaneously form and breakup. I must have fucked 30 or 40 boys at under 30 nights over the course of about 6 months.

There were these two daddies – they were a married gay couple in their 40s, who I hooked up with maybe a dozen times last year. They were the ones who introduced me to ecstasy.  Somewhere, floating around, there is a video of me being dp’d by them – high as fuck, with clamps on my nipples, in a jock strap, wearing a collar, with my hands cuffed behind my back just moaning “fuck me, fuck me, fuck me” over and over again. They also had incredible spotify playlists for fucking.

sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?

Locke: Yes.  I would love, while I’m still young (under 30), to be the live-in slave boy of a master for a period of time, maybe between 6 months to 3 years. He would keep me locked in chastity, keep me smooth and hairless below the neck, have me do forced workouts at the gym to keep my body muscular, have me do chores around his home in a jockstrap or thong or nothing at all, regularly tie me up and use me, maybe whore me out to his friends on occasion. Maybe once every couple of months, have a gangbang, where I, already desperately horny from weeks or months of chastity, would be forced poppers or ecstasy and serve a multitude of men. (If you’re a master who would like to do this to me, please message me)

When I am older (maybe starting in my mid-30s), and more established in life (ie have a career, and a house, etc), I’d like to get my own slave boys, and just have a cycle of live in twink slave boys, replacing one every few years after he’s finished college or moved on in his career or whatever.

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