Bareback = Sexual Freedom + Risky Fun ?

An Interview with a BB-Master – As longer as more people are searching on recon, twitter and other social media only for bareback dates. We want to know more why people are searching for it in times in which HIV is still not curable. I have had a talk with Master FreddX. We don’t want to judge about this special interest and also not to motivate others for risky games. Our intention is to know more about desires of fetish men.

MasterMarc: Hello Master FreddX. You are a real bareback lover and in your profile you’re searching for submissive bareback cunts. Could you tell me, why bareback is so important for you and why you don’t accept safe sex slaves?

Master FreddX: I am a REAL bareback lover (barebacker) for sure and I fully assume my choice of life and sexuality, but I would rather say that I like sex when there’s cum as when I had my first FULL sex experience (I was 16) there were no condoms with the guy at the time and a lot of cum. So, as I really did like it, I wanted more of what I would call it free sex (no boundaries, total freedom and no limits whatsoever). Moreover, I wasn’t really concerned by HIV at the time as I didn’t think it would/could happen to me and I certainly didn’t care that much about that (when doing sex, pleasure was my first priority and when under poppers or else, I didn’t thing or care about the risks I was taking but I was only focused on the pleasure I was having). Putting a condom was a barrier to my “fun” – a non natural way of having sex… Lame (putting a condom makes everything stop in the middle of sex and has for myself, really hard to get back where I was). Moreover, I can’t have a hard on if I put a condom so it ruins (ruined) the whole thing – the aim always was to be free and not hampered by condoms…

I am, indeed, looking for submissive bareback cunts (my profile being quite clear about that and honest – I say that I am poz, which is not a problem to me, but a problem to most subs/slaves as I think that BDSM, Master/slave “relationships” and bareback are hardly compatible – I discovered that not that long ago).

I don’t accept safe sex slaves/subs because my goal is to have the sexuality I like (not the sub’s sexuality or his problems with HIV, problems that disappear with a poz slave/sub) therefore, I am looking for poz slaves as it is much easier. Doing everything bareback is TOTAL FREEDOM to me (I can piss in slave’s cunt, breed it, inseminate it and much more – NO MORE LIMITS).

I am fully aware, now, about the consequences of bareback (I have been HIV+ for the past 23 years) but I won’t change anything about that. It’s my choice. I don’t oblige/force anyone, I give the facts about my HIV condition… And as I wouldn’t eat a sandwich wrapped in cellophane – it’s the same for sex. But even though bareback is non-negotiable, my sexuality has evolved in another way (but that’s another point).

MasterMarc: So you inform every sex partner about your HIV status, also if you are out in a darkroom of a cruising bar?

Master FreddX: As I rarely go to cruising bars or darkrooms, sex clubs […] anymore since it is not my research any longer as I am into Master/slave/sub “relationships” which (to me) are not possible in such places (I am not into “role play” as for me, it’s a way of life and a long term engagement in order to evolve to FULL slavery, hard BDSM and much more)…  I now only go to these places if they organize bareback, sleathy […] parties (but it’s just about sex and for good sex I’d rather go to specific Websites for barebackers such as BBackzone.com). So the question doesn’t apply to me anymore. Nevertheless, when I was youger, if the guy wanted safe sex, I didn’t do it… In a backroom, even if I never told my HIV status (which is obvious if you look at me – I am skinny and have stigmata of HIV) there was always a way to make my partner(s) know that I was into bareback – and as bareback is often associated with HIV (so if the guy(s) was/were not HIV+ he/they sometimes asked about my status so I told him/them) but if he/they didn’t ask and he/they was/were willing to get fucked bareback (it’s something between two or more adults and if one doesn’t want to take risks, it usually – if not to high on chems – does not) therefore it’s his/their choice. But when in saunas, sex clubs I tried to find HIV guys (quite easy to recognize – well it was quite easy when treatments were heavy). So the answer is NO (I have not always informed my partners – saying otherwise would be a lie) – I used not to tell or inform every sex partners I had but I always tried to make them understand… My answer might be shocking to many people but it is honest (certainly more honest than guys who pretend to be neg when they are poz). Moreover, there is a growing bareback community and I stay in that community NOW.

MasterMarc: Would you fuck a guy who is negative and wants to be pozed or would you talk with him to change his idea?

Master FreddX: I can’t write a long text about that question. But YES I would (if I could) and as surprisingly as it may seem, more and more guys want to get pozzed just to have the freedom of having a sexuality without limits. Nevertheless I would discuss about it and what it would imply in the future. BUT, as I am a HIV controller (rare as no treatment needed since my body controls HIV by itself) I can’t poz (undetectable Viral Load and for the record, I have been fucking bareback with a neg slave for 3 years and he never got pozzed).

Nevertheless, if it’s not me and if the guy really wants to get pozzed, he will go to another poz guy… And, unless you don’t know that you are HIV+ (then you are very contaminant), with a treatment pozzing is rare and almost impossible (Swiss Doctor opinion and some Doctors here – some), the HIGHER risk to me now is not HIV anymore but Syphilis, Hepatitis C and all other STDs…

MasterMarc: I know there are a lot of guys looking to get pozed. Of course you can live your sexuality with less limits. There are HIV treatments but it is still not curable. Is the freedom you get as poz guy really worthy to be infected with a incurable sickness?

Master FreddX: I can live my sexuality with no limits (at least much less limits than with condoms). BUT I can only speak for myself – it’s not curable but so are some cancers and other illnesses. Or I could be in perfect health and be crashed by a car tomorrow (or whatever). So I apprehend things this way, otherwise, I wouldn’t smoke or do any other excess that shorten life – I think that as I am poz (which wasn’t a choice), and after a very hard first year when I learned about it, I can now enjoy things (maybe for a shorter period of time, but no one knows) in a way a neg guy won’t (unless he doesn’t like cum, freedom of fucking without stopping and putting a condom, pissing in a cunt with his cock inside)… I would have said that my life was over when I got the news (and it certainly changed everything) but now, despites everything I had to go through (and physical problems are not the worst ones (anymore) – having to deal with people that are scared or rejection is much harder) even though I wouldn’t have chosen to be HIV+ at the time, now I think that it was worthy to be infected and live with HIV even though it is incurable… I would never have had the life and sexuality I have now and had otherwise… So I don’t regret a thing. Being poz in not a curse to me – it’s PURE SEXUAL FREEDOM. But my experience is different from many other guys who have big health issues (old poz guys) as I am very lucky… I (almost) always did bareback, no virus mutation, no major health problems but this is just my point of view and if you interview ten different persons you’ll certainly have at least 8 different points of view… So : “Is the freedom you get as poz guy really worthy to be infected with a incurable sickness?” = OF COURSE but I have had time to think about all this (some of my recently pozzed friends don’t see it that way)!

MasterMarc: Of course it is your decision and you are free in the way you want to think. As i have told in the introduction, we don’t want to judge. How do you think that the bareback community has developed since with the new medical treatments HIV isn’t anymore a sentence to death in the western world?

Master FreddX: I don’t feel judged at all. As I show myself and don’t hide what I like, I assume my choices 😉

I wouldn’t talk about “community” (I do think that it is a fantasy) but of a group of people sharing the same issues (HIV) and the same wants/needs and likes (bareback).

I saw the bareback “world” grow exponentially through the years. At the beginning (in the early 90′), people with HIV had to get their pills at the hospital pharmacy as they were not delivered in city pharmacies, so hospital and its pharmacy was the best place to meet other pozzed guys that I would see in sex places, therefore no need to talk about it and a small group of HIV people knowing each other emerged (plus the fact that poz guys were quite easy to recognize at the time because of what treatments did to the body – no cheeks for some, skinny guys, no more fat in arse)… Now with the Internet and Websites dedicated to bareback, it’s much easier, therefore the so called community is getting bigger and bigger… As a minority within a minority (HIV+ & gay), people tend to form some sort of a group with the same interests, a group where they won’t have to give their “curriculum” as everything can be written on Websites profiles or dedicated Websites, won’t be rejected (it still does exist and unfortunately, HIV+ people – as I noticed – are much more rejected than a few years ago by some neg guys [???]).

Moreover, many people are fed up of safe sex/condoms (you just have to watch the number of bareback movies that can be found on the Internet – it has been a taboo for a long time but it’s not the case anymore) and are appealed by what they see as a normal behaviour (mostly young guys that, for some, are not informed properly or don’t care).

There also are Preps (taking Truvada before a bareback relationship which limits the risks – I have seen some on Tweeter – like Truvada whore).

It’s not a thought but an observation. Bareback and the bareback community is getting bigger every day.

I give you a few links to bareback dedicated Websites: https://bbackzone.com/ (French) | http://www.bareback.com/ | https://www.barebackrt.com/ | http://cumtemple.org/

MasterMarc: Do you think that young people are nowadays less informed than 10 years ago? Should the prevention work be focused more on young gays? 

Master FreddX: I think that young people are much less informed that 10 years ago (that’s for sure). Not very many TV campaigns (some before Summer vacations but very light and certainly not as POWERFUL – in France – as in Anglo-Saxon countries. Not to say lame/pitiful and far from captivating attention). No more SIDACTION as it was done in the 90′ (a full primetime show on TV). Inefficient AIDS associations (not all of them but the largest French one AIDeS which doesn’t do much any longer, not to say nothing appropriate besides quick HIV tests). Misinformation on the news (I heard the anchorman on the most watched TV channel – TF1 – say, when he received 2 persons that are into AIDS fighting, that AIDS wasn’t killing in France any more [???] it does (I loose people I know every year) and if it’s not AIDS it’s related to the treatments (heart attacks…). The information that young (and older) guys get is through what they see on the Internet and bareback movies which are much more appealing than “having a sexual relation without condoms is not good – think about putting a condom” on TV (it sounds like a joke to me). I think, that prevention should be focused on everyone but especially young people as I have heard or read from them that “now you take a pill, if you get HIV, and it’s Ok”. Some even think that it is curable [???]. But it should be focused on older people too, straights guys and women as for most of them, HIV is a gay disease  (so they don’t feel concerned at all), bisexuals…

AIDS associations did a real good job when people were massively dying (before 1996 and multiple therapies). Hospitals did too and offered condoms, lubricants and much more brochures than we can find now. But, as HIV is now considered as a chronic illness (I talked about that with my Infectious disease specialist) authorities don’t seem to care as treatments are less expensive and there’s a whole laboratory and very lucrative business around that.

Moreover, I do think that it would be much better if all this was done by people that are concerned and had to live it through when death was the only perspective (not straight HIV negative women – just for the example as I write from things I have lived and seen – who are not fit to touch and be credible to a gay public).

Last. I don’t think any prevention will have the equal strenght of what can be seen on the Internet (Wurstfilm movies, TIM movies… have a very attractive way to present bareback and for the record, I have much more retweets when I post bareback pics or gifs than when I post BDSM or soft pics)…

Even though, this might not seem very clear, as bareback is a subject that interests me, I have tried to get as many info as possible on the subject and this is only my point of view and my experience. And, it’s pretty hard to explain my points of view without talking about the various experienced I have had. I hope you can pull something of all this…

MasterMarc: I think in most of the points you’re totally right. The point that HIV is still not curable is important. As poz guy you get probably freedom in your sexuality but being positive is in general not really nice. You need your daily medicine, some of them have side effects, and you loos quality of life. And should we really talk about the depressions a lot of positive guys have? As i have said in the beginning, we don’t want to judge. Everyone has to decide by himself if by winning sexual freedom you win more than you loos. But one thing is really important for me: Live your life as you want as long as you don’t restrict somebody else freedom and life it is ok!