MasterMind: The Dom will find a way to trap the sub

An interview with MasterMind (Cirque du Bondage), a bondage master.

MasterMarc: Hi MasterMind. It’s a great pleasure to have you here with us. You’re comming from Singapore and you’re a real bondage lover. On your tumblr blog you’re showing a lot of your “victimes” in ropes. When have you started to do bondage and can you tell us, why bondage is so fascinating for you?

MasterMind: Hey MasterMarc, nice to meet you and everyone here. It’s my pleasure to be here, sharing with you some of my experiences and thoughts.

First of all, thanks for identifying me as a bondage lover instead bdsm lover. I do love bondage more than the rest. I do not resist the idea of having a prisoner of war session, master/slave and etc, but the thought of having another bondage lover tied and gagged securely right in front of me, anticipating endless teasing and “surprises” in helpless mode… always get me into the mood in a flash. I have been doing this for the past 16 years, ever since I was connected to this world via Internet.

To me, bondage is a form of art. I would like to call it the art of restriction. Playing with the right guy, especially those who love to struggle free and find way to escape, is a major turn for me. The ropes on lean fit body, the fight against ropes, the moan/muffled sound made through gag… all is hot. 😉

MasterMarc: It seems that it is for you like a chess game in which both do their moves to reach contrary goals. Is there also a sexual aspect included?

MasterMind: Yes, it has to be a game where both parties enjoy playing it. The Dom will find way to trap the sub, push him to the edge in order to defeat and make him surrender totally to the Dom. Once in that stage, the Dom will be in total control and the sub will accept his fate as a helpless submissive boy. He has no choice but to accept the “punishment” awaits him. The tough one will continue to resist and fight against the tight ropes, however the more he fights, the more helpless he feels.

At this stage, you will definitely see a big bulge or hard on under his underwear/tights/shorts. It is impolite if you don’t grab and touch it. lol. To push the session to another level, the sexual part needs to kick in. I will explore with my hands searching for the sensitive spots. Once I found it, I will keep teasing it to stir his feeling, giving him no chance to think straight but to catch his breath. 😉 Mostly stroking, edging, nipples teasing, cum control, ruined orgasm, milking and playing with ass toys. Hardly have sex in a bondage session.

MasterMarc: What kind of bondage do you prefer? And do you have also other ways to immobilize guys?

MasterMind: Hogtie and frogtie rank top in my list. Those are the most effective way to keep a guy immobilize and make him feel like a bound object. By placing the knots at the spot that’s out of his reach, the chance to escape is minimalized. In this stressful and tight position, he will feel exhausted easily. He will then wanted to get out from the stressful position. You will see them starting to search for the knots, stretch their muscles trying to break free, getting frustrated by not able to escape and make those insignificant muffled noises through their gagged mouth. This is the moment they realize the true meaning of a bound object. 😉

Some boys like predicament bondage. You can not tie them up in this position for too long, for safety reason. The tough one might be able to stay a little bit longer in those positions but it’s not good for extended play.

Other than that, I also tie them in sitting / standing position, fixed to objects such as chair / table / bed / etc, giving me more chances to tease their expose and defenseless body.

For extended play such as overnight session, I will tie them in a more comfortable session – hands by the side and legs tied together. Most of them time, I don’t get to sleep because I need to keep an eye on them and making sure that they are safe especially for those with gag on. Believe in playing safe and sane.

Besides rope bondage, I do wrap some of them up in mummification or put them in straighjacket. I do have leather cuffs but always find that it’s not secure as rope and tape.

MasterMarc: You show on your tumblr blog a lot of bounded victimes who have visited you. Can you tell us, which pictures and boys you like most and explain us why do you love the pic and what makes the boy such a special one for you?

MasterMind: This is a tricky question. I might lose some of them if I have to pick a few that I like most. You are a bad boy, MasterMarc. Bend down and be spanked. lol

Well, I would say that I like all of them! They are my lovely playmates. I enjoy the session(s) with them, and have their pictures posted on my tumblr. For other hot playmates who do not want to be seen, I always respect their wish. 🙂

The boys who I always like to play with share a few common points, which are: love bondage game, easy going, open minded, adventurous, lean tone/fit, healthy, discreet and intelligent.

Let’s talk about a few hot boys:

He is one of my favorite boys because he is tough, easy going, adventurous, intelligent and always horny. He is open for new ideas and always find way to push his limits. Had a few great sessions with him and I bet we will have more soon. His tan and lean tone body always look good and sexy in picture and in person.

Enjoy the sessions with this boy because he is daring and tough. In our first session, before seeing me in real, he dare to walking into the trap that I set for him, left him instructions asking him to gag and blindfold himself before sliding each of his hand into the knots that’s fixed apart at the bar above his head, and pulled it tight. His body was covered with cold sweat but having a hard on under his tights.

It was a “dream come true” session for him. In the picture, you can see him tied securely on the floor in his sexy socked feet tights. He was carried into the room on my shoulder with his hands and legs tied…

These two soccer boys were taking turn to have their “payback time” on each other, after spending a few hours running and sweating on the soccer fields in the evening. Bound sporty boy is always nice to be seen and teased.

The following two sexy lads are my fauvorite as well, love to see them bound and gagged sexily. 😉

MasterMarc: I really like your pics and the last one is one of my favourits. You really have sexy boys you play with. I know in your country it isn’t so easy to live the gay sexuality. How do you find your boys to play with?

MasterMind: Glad you like them. They will be very happy to hear this from you.

It’s not that tough to live as a gay in my country. It’s not legalize, but there’s places like pub and bar cater for this LGBT group. Most of the people here aware of the existing of LGBT. It’s not difficult to detect them within your radar. As long as we are decent and following the rules that apply to everyone, I think we can live a good life here.

To be frank, I am the one found by those sexy boy instead. 😉 I think it’s the same as other country where we are all connected through Internet – Recon, Grindr, Jack’d, Tumblr, Facebook. Some sexy boys are recommended by playmates, or through the world of mouth. Of course we don’t discuss this openly. It’s not commonly accepted even in the LGBT group.

MasterMarc: I hope the situation for gays in Singapore will change to the better soon. But let us talk again about bondage. Do you have any bondage fantasies you haven’t realized till now and can you describe us some of them?

MasterMind: I would like to put someone in suspension bondage, if I can find a strong hook on the ceiling. It will be challenging to secure someone in that position by using the right technic. Besides, understand from some boys that it feels different when “floating” in the air. Any movement or struggle seems so strengthless hence they will feel more helpless. I think I would like to try this with the right guy.

Besides, playing in a room equipped with lots of gears should be fun too. Putting a guy in vacuum bag and sleeping bag will let me experience different way to restrict someone. Plus, using some nice gears on them, such as milking matching, muzzle gag, inflatable gag, sensory deprivation hood and etc, might create sparks and chemistry in a session that I have not experienced before.

MasterMarc: Seems that you still have a lot of new ideas and we are all curious to see the results of your “work” on your tumblr. It was great to talk to you. Hope we will continue with it in the future.

Visit MasterMind’s blog on Tumblr.