A column …
Personal thoughts of a sadistic Master
Hello my dear readers!
Today I want to start a new series of articles, in which I want to explain from time to time, why I do the things that I do and what the motivation behind is. Today I will write about the way I want to be addressed, the tools I use and the treatment I inflict to my slaves.
Massa
I often receive the question why I want to be addressed with “Massa” and what this addressing means.
The history of the word “Massa” or alternatively “Massah” goes back to the time of the transatlantic slave trade. It is a so called “Eye dialect”. An “Eye dialect” is a word, that is in written form different than to the pronunciation. For example the word “women” which sometimes is spoken like [wɪmɪn]. It´s the same with the word “Massa”, which originally means “Master”, representing African American Vernacular English. Okay, so this was the historical part.
Now let me explain the motivation behind this form of address. I chose this form of address for several reasons.
The first reason why I want to be addressed as Massa, is that I want to express, that I am into real, consensual slavery. I am aware that it is an extreme part of the SM-scene and that this is not for everybody. But for those, who are interested in this extreme part of SM the form of address can give a first hint, that I have the same interests.
The second reason why I chose this form of address is, that I want to clearly differ to all the Doms, Masters and Sirs. Please don´t get me wrong with what I am going to say. It´s absolutely okay to be a Dom or Master or Sir and just “play” from time to time with a slave or to lose interest in SM and domination after you shot your load. But I am different to the majority of all those members of the SM-Community. For me it´s not a hobby or something I do to have sex but a complete lifestyle. I train and keep slaves since the age of 18. Today I am 51 years old, so that means that I live this lifestyle since more than 33 years now. I chose the house, that I bought, after this lifestyle and also the place where I live was chosen after my lifestyle. So I choose a different title. To express this difference.
The third reason why I chose “Massa”, was that it also gives a hint that I am into “race play”. I talked about race play before and if you are unsure what it is, feel free to follow the link that is shown here: https://kinkfinity.com/ferdok-race-play/
I mentioned before that the word “Massa” refers to the times of the transatlantic slave trade and so you might now recognize the link, between race play and the word “Massa”.
Metal and not Leather
Since I started to keep and train slaves, I always used iron chains, metal collars and metal restraints. For me it simply looks more real and transports a completely different message, than using leather restraints or leather collars. If you want to make sure that your sub feels well, than it´s okay to use leather. But that´s not my goal, because I don´t train subs. I am looking for owning and training slaves. I hope that the difference between a sub and a slave is clear.
The second reason why I use metal instead of leather is, that metal was always used in all times of slavery. And it doesn´t matter, if we talk about the transatlantic slave trade or if we talk about the roman times of slavery. Slaves were always secured with iron and metal. And it doesn´t make a difference, if we talk about restraints, collars, or chastity cages. I use metal.
The third reason why I use metal and not leather, is that metal is simply more secure. Leather can be destroyed easily. You just need to tear it a lot or it just needs to get wet and then it´s much easier to destroy it or to slip out of it. Toys made of metal offer much more reliability. Another side effect is, that a collar and the chains simply weigh much more, than compared with leather ones. And if a slave feels the weight of his collar and chains, he is always reminded, what he is and what status he has. Needless to say, that this also has a psychological effect on the slave.
Torture, Punishment and Exposure of a slave
To get sexual services from a slave is fine. But for me that´s not enough. I expect from my slaves, that they are also willing, to satisfy my sadistic needs. Yes, I am a sadist. And for those, who don´t know, what a sadist is, I will explain it a bit. A sadist is a person, that gets sexual satisfaction from inflicting pain to others. I am a sadist. And that means, if a slave really wants to please me, he has to take pain. It doesn´t give me any pleasure or satisfaction at all, if a slave kneels just down and starts to suck my cock. My cock stays soft and you can suck it as much as you want, nothing will happen.
But as soon, as I start to whip a slave, I go rock hard. It turns me on, to hear a slave moan and it also turns me on, to see a crying slave. I am a natural born sadist and for me it is not possible, to suppress these needs and to just concentrate on vanilla sex. It simply doesn´t work. I tried it once, when I was in my early teens and it went horribly wrong. I have to admit, that it wasn´t easy, to accept the fact, that I am a sadist. I am absolutely aware, that it sounds scary, when I talk about this fact and I am also aware, that some people might get scared. But it is a part of my personality. It´s simply who and what I am.
The thing about my sadism is, that while I do extreme things to my slaves, I would never do something, that would mutilate them or harm them permanently. It might sound like an oxymoron, but I am very responsible about the things I do to my slaves and usually each slave gets a good feeling about that, after a short time.
And because I am a sadist I torture and discipline my slaves daily. Each slave gets bullwhipped at least three times per day. And why is that? Because I want the slave to get used to the whip. Slavery and the bullwhip go hand in hand in real slavery. And it´s the same in my dungeon. The whip will remind the slave what it is, and I made the experience, that slaves serve much better, when they get whipped regularly. Slaves that get whipped regularly become much more submissive and much more eager to serve the best they can. But the bullwhip isn´t the only tool I use. I also use the cane, different kind of paddles and floggers just to name a few. I also use electro on my slaves and I also work with needles.
But I use my slaves also for house choirs and butler services, when I have friends around. And when I use a slave for butler services, the slave is always naked. Also and especially in front of other people. I expect from a slave, that he is willing to accept these things. Another thing I do is to make pictures and videos of my slaves and I usually put these videos on xtube.com and thisVid.com. Here is a little list of 4 videos. With this link you should be able to find all other videos.
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/master-ferdok-s-dungeon-16169981
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/flogging-caning-spanking-caning-36328041
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/some-very-light-pony-training-36304091
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/a-latino-slave-in-a-pillory-35881311
There are more than 50 videos on xtube about my work. Check them out to get an impression about my artwork.
Safe words and why I don´t use them
Safe words? That’s nothing I use. Slaves are slaves and as soon as a slave would be allowed to use a safe word, it would mean that he would have absolute control over the situation. But a slave should be totally dependent on the master that he serves. Otherwise it wouldn’t be consensual but real slavery but just an ordinary fuck session with some SM included. And for me that’s a big difference. But how do I know, if the slave has reached his limits? Very simple. It’s called body reading. After more than 33 years of experience in training and owning slaves, I can see it. I can see it in the face expressions of a slave, I can see it in the way, that his body responds. I am simply reading the slave´s body. And how would it work, if I want to push the limits of a slave and the slave would be in control? Very simple answer. It wouldn’t work at all, if the slave had the possibility to end that training, with just using a safe word. And for all these reasons I don’t use safe words. I don´t want that the slave has nay control. I want to make sure, that the slave realizes, that he is totally depending on me.
More than one slave? Why?
Some people ask me, why I train so many different slaves. The answer is very simple. I like to have different slaves. My absolute favourites are black and brown skinned slaves. But also light skinned Latinos and Arabs catch my attention from time to time. Each slave is unique, and each slave has his own qualities. I have never been monogamous. I always had more than one slave that got trained. Most slaves can´t serve daily or even weekly because most of the slaves live quite far from me. In fact the majority of slaves are from the Netherlands and Belgium and it´s always a 6 hours trip for each of them to visit me. It´s the same for my english slaves and for the Latinos who came from Portugal or France to serve. And I have a very high sex drive. That´s another reason, why I train more than one slave. And sometimes two slaves serve together at the same time and that´s always a very intense experience for both slaves and also for me.
That’s it for this week. Stay safe out there and keep your asses at home. Hope to see all of you healthy and fit again in some weeks, when this nightmare is over.