BDSM is more than just a sexual preference

Most important for me is to just keep exploring, keep finding out what I like and seeing what peaks my interest.

How long have you already been living out your kinky side, and how did you come to that?

One of the first ever pieces of porn I watched when I was discovering my sexuality happened to be one of BDSM format (totally by chance/accident). For some reason after that, it’s what I tended to watch. Going into my first relationship aged 18 I started to become more aware of my sexual likes and capabilities, and after a while I wanted to look more into satisfying my kink needs.

After that relationship, one of my first sexual endeavours was with someone quite well known in the community down in London. I had an absolutely incredible time and was really quite the leap to what I had done before. It included a range of kinks including, LOTS of rope, feet, wax, teasing, gag, the works really. This was a huge realisation for me that this world was where my enjoyment lied, and I wanted more and more. Ever since then it’s really just been a natural progression through exploring new kinks, developing passions and going further into the community.

Whats especially important for you there?

For me I’ve always known that BDSM has been more than just a sexual preference, I even remember having thoughts and fantasies before my first porn experience. It’s been with me for a long time, and ever since developing this love, I’ve been focussing on placing my kink persona within my everyday personality and how much this collides/overlaps. Enjoyment and exploration and quintessential to my preferences, and I’m willing to try a lot if I haven’t already. I’m very open in my approaches, and I want to do and try everything. My Twitter account shows a huge range of kinks and fetishes, this is simply because of my love of experiencing and trying everything.

Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?

As I said, I’m really eager to try a lot, and I want to experience all this community has to offer. I love seeing new and niche things on twitter which seem to be coming about and I find that so interesting. Going to my deep loves though, first and foremost bondage is important to me, I love to be restrained/restrain someone a lot, this includes removing sense, using gags, hoods etc, pair this with a straight jacket or sleepsack and I would be in heaven, lots of restriction, lack of senses. From there the possibilities are endless, I’m exploring pain a lot and enjoy whipping/cbt/cp both giving and taking, I’ve dabbled in minor electro and it fascinates me! Watersports is absolutely a personal favourite of mine in a variety of ways, I just love it. Combine all this with general degradation and humiliation, and oh boy.

What kind of guys do you like?

I don’t have a hard and fast type here, but I do have a weakness. Generally looking through my history I fall for the twinks, plain and simple. Usually around my age (ish), and I’m a sucker for some blonde hair on an innocent OR dominant looking twink. They just get me weak.

What was your hottest experience until now?

I really have had a range of experiences, and they’ve all helped me develop, find passions and learn about who I

As I mentioned in the first question too, that true first bondage experience was one that meant a lot to me, we explored a lot, I was tied up, given challenged, teased, edged and pain inflictied. That really left a lasting mark on me as something that led me to where I am today.

Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?

For sure! As mentioned, I’m super into exploring new and interesting fetishes and kinks, and I NEVER want to stop learning and experiencing things. More specifically however I’m really fascinated with the idea of kink leaking outside the bedroom, things like domestic servitude really peak my interest. I hope to one day have a fully stocked dungeon, with cages, metal bars and cold hard concrete floors where some lessons can be learnt. I also want to explore some longer timed things, bondage over a period of hours, maybe serving for a much longer time in the aforementioned dungeon, and this experience will grow when I finally get myself in a sleep sack! Most important for me is to just keep exploring, keep finding out what I like and seeing what peaks my interest.