If you’re a visitor of fetish events in Europe, you probably know The Puppeteer. He is one of the bondage and suspension specialists who fascinate the audience with his bondage and suspension knowledge. Even my boy Se7en has been bound last Folsom Europe by him. I really like his work and he is doing it very professionally. You can feel, that the safety of his “victims” is very important to him. Hi Puppeteer, I am happy to have you with us. For how long are you into bondage, and how does it come?
Hey, thanks for the compliment. Yes I do what I can to make the play and keep my “victims” safe and sound. But shit always can happen, so I always have backup safety plans.
I’m doing rope bondage for around 5 years on stage now, and in my private life even longer, for as long as I can remember. I started out with those white cotton ropes, like so many others probably did. Soon the fantasies in my head started to cruise around more complex roping and suspension, and I really wanted to try that out. Then I came across shibari where I can let my fantasy out of the box and make really nice bondage installations.
Can you tell us, what makes bondage for you so attracting? Why do you love to bind boys?
I have my roots in fine arts. So I like to control my canvas. You must take control to create what you have in your head. Also I like that i take control of their body and mind. To put them in a difficult spot with my ropes. And of course it looks nice to see the surrender and horniness in their eyes.
I like that i take control of their body and mind. To put them in a difficult spot with my ropes.
Bondage & Whipping Is Another Level Than Having Sex
I totally understand what you mean. Eyes in which you can see devotion but at the same time also a little pain and the feeling of being powerless and delivered in combination with a sexual turn on are really sweet. During shows I’ve never seen you doing sexual action with the boys. How is it in private life? Is the sex part of your bondage sessions?
If you cum, then the game is over. And if I’m too horny, my performance is not so good. If I’m horny, I like to face fuck it. And piss over it.. 😉 rope for me is a sensual art. And yes, I get horny from it. And I like it. But it is on a other level than having sex.
It is the same as with whipping. You cannot fuck the boy while you are whipping him. Whipping is on another level then having sex. But afterwards your boy is more willing to please the master. Same as in bondage.
Suspension Is The Complete Control
You are really well known for SUSPENSION. That is the royal discipline of bondage. What makes suspension so special for you?
Suspension is a just part of the whole bondage spectrum. I also do a lot of ground bondage and semi suspensions. Of course, suspension has that instant wow effect and is great when doing a show or photos. For me personally, it is the complete control. And the kick of putting someone in the air, to see them swing. And the fun of having complete access to the boy. Every part of him 😉
But Suspension is definitely not for newbie tops. What makes it more difficult than normal ground bondage?
You must know where you can put pressure on the body so it doesn’t hurt the sub. And how to lock the ropes, so the knot will not slip. Also, the models are powerless and helpless should they fall, and could not protect them self. So you must keep your head together at all times with your bondage and the model. Also, you must pay attention to your workplace if surrounding audience and bystanders are not trying to play with the model of the rope if you are playing in a darkroom. Everything needs to be under your control.
So yes, you must know what you are doing…
Communication Is Important
I am sure you have even more advice and things people have to think about if they are doing a good bondage session, as it should be.
Yes, definitely. Make sure that you have a clear communication. Have safety scissors at hand. A blocked nerve is very common, so always check if there is feeling and control on the hands/feet. Pain and a stingy numb getting feeling is a sign that there is something wrong. If the grip of the hands are not strong, then there is something very wrong. Untie them immediately in those cases! With bondage, you always block the blood flow somewhere. That is not a bad thing. But sometimes people will pass out. Don’t stress then, just cut the ropes, or untie them. Let them lay on the ground to stabilize the blood circulation.
Can you tell us about your preparation for emergency cases? Do you use special knots, and do you have other tools with you for such moments?
If I prep for a performance and home play… I always bind my rope, so I can have it fast on hand. Also, I have a safety knife on the hands where I can cut the rope safely. And sometimes you need to cut the rope if your model is not feeling well or the rope is tangled, and you can not get is lose. I use rope that I have waxed that works for me very well.
You’re also organizing bondage and fetish events. Can you tell us what the kinksters can expect if they visit the “Ready 2 Play” events?
ready2play is very close to me, it’s a party where people can discover their kinkyness in a safe atmosphere. I think it is important that people can be themselves and express how they want to. I have set up ready2play because there are not many play spaces, or places where you can play as kinky in my area. Sure, you can fuck anywhere. But you can not succeed quickly with each other or in a group. Another goal is to make networks and make friends. So you can also find a good master or slave that suits you. By chilling, watching, playing and socializing. Your kinky world will become bigger and more fun. It’s for everyone really, be it younger, older, beginner or experienced.
In short: Ready2Play is a fetish and BDSM party, where the space and atmosphere is given to freely experiment with the entire spectrum of BDSM and fetish with a relaxed and safe atmosphere so that everyone can play freely, whether you’re a beginner or veteran. A fun party where you can enjoy, chill out at the bar and enlarge your kinky network.
And what is your function in the organisation and what kind of action can people expect from you during this party?
I’m the owner and host. Well, Ready2play is a social gathering for bdsm and fetish minded people. I think people can expect of bondage, whipping, spanking, master/slave stuff (basically all kinds of play really), but there is also a lot of room to socialize. And probably you can also see me there doing a hot suspension session with cute guys. 🙂 So come over and enjoy 😉
