Some weeks ago, Osiris had answered some questions about dick sizes and their importance in one of our articles. Today he is here with me to talk a little about his kinkster side. I know most of you know him from porn scenes in which he is showing his top qualities with his impressive 10’5 inch dick, but he has also another side … a kinky and submissive one. I think that is a good reason to talk with him to know a little more about him, his desires and needs and to see, how the guy behind the porn facade is. Hi Osiris, as well known porn actor, sex means work for you. But which importance has sex in your private life?
In my private life, sex is not too important. I usually find a guy to get my necessary release. Most times I will seek out other porn performers and have an off screen sexual rendezvous. Sex to me is an exploration of physical desires.
So what is good sex for you?
Good sex is two or more people enjoying each other physically without relying on drugs or other outside means. It’s a certain level of connection based on trust and mutal respect. I know it’s good sex when my partner confess their love for me. *laughs* Just kidding.
Of course love. I am sure on a porn set you love each other from the deep of your heart. 🙂 When have you realised that there is more than vanilla and what have been your first steps into the kinky world?
Ever since I learned about sex I knew there was more than vanilla sex. I’m convinced that is why I am so picky with sexual partners. I grew up very open-minded in as many aspects as possible. My first steps in the kinky world were when I discovered late night sex parties in Savannah. I was extremely turned on by the group of guys playing naked. I enjoyed seeing everyone of different shapes, sizes and ethnicities having sex.
It was beautiful and prompted me to keep being open-minded with my sexuality and the exploration of it. As for the BDSM world, I went in with an open mind but only engaged with partners who earned my trust.
Yes trust is the base of good SM. But now you have really to tell us, what are you into?
I’m into rope bondage because of the way it marks my skin. It also led me into rope suspension. It’s pretty calming once I entered my headspace. I’m a pup. I go by Bacon. I don’t have a handler. Never found one that could match my personality. I love groups as a kink. There’s a wonderful experience with being around so many guys engaged in sex. Something I want to try is vacuum cubes and beds. I’m saving up for a collection of rubber for such occasion.
You call yourself a pup. What does it mean for you, to be a pup? You don’t have a handler but are you part of a pack?
I do not have a handler. I left my pack when I left Florida a month ago. Being a pup means a lot to me. I learned about it when I joined the leather community a few years ago. I had Pup Amp and Mr. Puppy UK 2017 Pup Piglet as mentors. I even had a few local Florida pups that gave me guidance.
But overall it was my military service that gave me my title as pup. I served in the US Marines. One of my favorite branch nicknames is “Devil Dog”. Which was given to the Marines by the Germans in WWI during the battle of Belleau Wood. I consider myself a “Devil Pup” and took on the colors of black and red for my pup color. It is a large homage to my heritage as a military veteran and the sacrifice I made to my country.
Wow, that is one of the best though pup names I’ve ever heard, and you have had well known mentors. 🙂 You love to be submissive, but what does it need that you accept a guy as “boss”? And what is the attraction of being submissive?
I’m not looking for a boss. I’m looking for a person. I am not a submissive for the sake of being dominated by another. I identify with the “man’s best friend” aspect of being a human dog. As a dog (biodog) owner, I understand that he loves me unconditionally and his loyalty is greater than any other man I have encountered. As a human dog, I want to extend those same feelings to someone else. That person does not need to a dom, another pup, or even a member of the leather/fetsh community. My ideal handler would be a boy (which is another aspect of being a sub). It’s a play on the classic “a boy and his dog” pairing.
In real life you see several dogs, mostly small ones, dominating their handlers, mostly women. Are you one of these dogs?
No. I’m more like Disney’s Pluto, the famous Collie Lassie or one of those hero dogs you see on TV and movies. I’m not in a submissive role seeking to dominate or to be dominated. I’m not going to let you know that Timmy is stuck in the well if I am constantly being dominated. When I choose to be collared, I want that person to know that I am a guard dog, protector, playmate, best friend, and an all around good boy. And that person is to know that they’re to do everything in their power to make sure I can fulfill my duty as a protector. I’m strong willed, opinionated and outspoken.
It’s one of the reasons I was never collared. I met too many handlers that sought the power that comes from being dominating. I felt they were so power hungry that they would forego my well-being and safety. I’m not going to subject myself to an abusive relationship.
Our readers know, that in my eyes good masters are never searching for power, they are searching for responsibility. I think for handlers, this rule is also valid. But sometimes a handler has to be strict and demanding with his dog. He has to show him his position. How do you handle such moments?
I’m studying psychology in university. My favorite psychology pioneer is Pavlov. I learned from his discovery of positive and negative reinforcement/punishment that dogs responded differently to each.
Instead of “strict” and “demanding”, I want a handler that’s “patient” and “understanding”. Rubbing a puppy’s nose in his mess has less of an effect than a reward when he makes the mess outside/appropriate area.
I understand there’s a whole lot of pups and handlers who seek that type of Dom/Sub relationship. I’m not interested in that level of role-play. I’m not afraid to express my interest.
Hehe. I can imagine that you aren’t afraid about. 🙂 Btw, you are an insider of the porn world. In the fetish world the pup play fetish has become real popular, but you don’t see it often in porn movies. What do you think are the reasons?
I think the reasons pup play porn doesn’t exist are 1) misrepresentation of the pup play dynamic. Some pups only enter the pup headspace for the escape. Doesn’t have to be sexual at all. 2) Entering pup headspace is a personal adventure and doesn’t translate well as a fantasy, which is the purpose of porn. 3) Misrepresentation of handlers and their role towards the pup. There would be a overgeneralization of the duties of a handler. 4) Critics would label the fetish into various categories of taboo. 5) The connection between Pup/Handler, Pup/Pup, or Boy/Pup is often a private play scene.
I would engage in a pup porn scene but only with certain people who understand the purpose of my headspace.
How would such a “good” pup porn scene look like if you would be storybook writer, director and main actor?
Honestly, I wouldn’t produce anything of that calibre. I think it wouldn’t translate well for the simple fact that the play session between pup and handler is a personal one. It is also varied by the couples. Some pup/handler couples will play fetch, or cuddles, or commands training. No two play scenes are the same. If I was to do a “pup porn”, it would be an amateur filming. There’d probably be no sex. It would be a training film of sorts. Haha!
You have also been in the cast of kinky porn scenes. Can you tell us, which was in your eyes the best one and why?
I greatly enjoyed my KinkMen.com scene on BoundGods with Christian Wilde. It was the first time I was able to enter subspace. Thanks to his actions as a Dom he was able to connect with me and made me feel safe. He’s also the standard by which I gauge how a Dom should be.
My favorite part of the scene was the rope bondage. I had never been in an inverted suspension and he made it seem like I was a pro. He would stop the filming every now again to see if I needed a break (for water or to be right side up) since I was hanging upside down by my ankles. He told me the position I was bound in was difficult and high level compared to a bdsm novice. Towards the end of the segment when the director got enough footage, he looked at me and said “are you ready” with a smile. I knew what he was about to do and said “yes, Sir”. He waited till I closed my eyes and readied myself before he spun me a good 7-8 revolutions.
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Sounds like a dizzy kinky experience 🙂 …. If you look forward, what are your next kinky goals and projects in porn and of course in private life?
Next year the only thing I have plans for is Manchester rubber weekend. That’s my biggest concern. I’m not looking for anything in that regard right now. I’m mostly focused on my next step in the university process.
Osiris Blade
1980
Charlotte
United States
