How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
My interest in kink first sparked at around 14 years, I was looking up porn on the internet and came across some bondage videos wich really caught my attention. From that point forward I started looking up bondage porn more and more, and eventually started experimenting with some light self bondage. Looking back now bondage always intrigued me. For as long as I can remember, whenever I was playing outside as a kid with my friends, I’d always ask them to tie me up, or play any type of game that involved tying up or something similar. This was way before I started looking at porn.
MyFetishLife
1992
Netherlands
The most important thing about coming into my kink side and living it the way I do is the fact that I found people to talk to.
Whats especially important for you there?
The most important thing about coming into my kink side and living it the way I do today, I think, is the fact that I found people to talk to, have open conversations about it, and not be judged or have people react in any weird way. This is also what I aspire to do now, make kink approachable. I try to make a difference wherever I can now so that people just looking into kink get the same freedom to explore their kink, as I did.
Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
I’m not that much of a sexual person, I prefer kink/play over sex. As far as fetish preferences go I’m into a lot of things, I like to view it as Pokémon cards, gotta collect them all. However my main fetishes are bondage/Shibari, chastity and sportswear.
What kind of guys do you like?
I’m very much into guys that are confident in their kinky side. Talking about looks I like them looking tough, masculine and they must have a well-kept appearance. However I am known to go for the entire opposite, personality is everything!
What was your hottest experience until now?
This is always such a hard question to answer for me, as I have a lot of kinks/fetishes this really does depend on my current mood, and whichever fetish I’m into the most at the time of answering. However I’ve had quiet a few very hot experiences. One that particularly comes to mind is with a dominant I’ve visited a few times.
As always we started with some catching up and drinks, but soon after I had to undress and get on my knees. This was the moment I had to start to be submissive. First thing we went upstairs cause I collected quiet the points for spanking. After getting spanked for quiet some time and being pretty sore from it, we went back downstairs and I had to sit in a corner and wait. Meanwhile my master was preparing some food and once finished he gave me a plate, still sitting in the corner and had to eat. Once we were done eating and taking a small moment to let it settle, we went back upstairs.
Once back upstairs he put a gas mask on my face, and taped the eyes shut. From here on he further proceeded and put a butt plug in (little did I know at the time that this was a butt plug made for e-stim). After he got done doing this he started to wrap me in plastic and mummified me. Eventually I ended up on the bed totally mummified, wearing a gas mask and a but plug.
At this point I realized what kind of but plug it was as he plugged in the cords. He also put some e-Stim on my penis. This lasted for quiet some time, and by far was my hottest experience ever!
Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
There’s plenty I want to try out still, and even more I don’t even know I want to try out probably. I’m very interested however in segufix and vac beds. I’d love to get a chance to try those out. As for any other kink/fetish/toy I have not yet tried, who knows, maybe its my next favorite thing!
