Wolfram | 1995 | 190 cm | 68 kg | Conneticut (USA)
the excitement of the scene and finally getting to experience being tied up kept me aroused the entire time!
Twitter: @ItsWolframOK
Our Reader’s Fetish Life
sadOsam: How long have you already been living out your kinky side and how did you came to that?
Wolfram: I have been exploring kink and my own interests there for about a year now. I’ve been interested in various aspects of kink for basically as long as I can remember, but didn’t actually start doing anything until I lost my virginity at 21. Before that I had always been too nervous to actually engage with anyone, but afterwards I felt comfortable to work a little with a dom I met online and eventually meet with online friends and doms.
sadOsam: Whats especially important for you there?
Wolfram: I believe comfort with yourself, your kinks, and the people you’re playing with both in and out of play is most important. If you feel comfortable it’s easier to enjoy play, try new things, push your limits, communicate, and to say no if you need to. Outside of that though, for me personally the most important part of kink is probably the emotional states and physical sensations that can be achieved through kink. Very few things compare to the pressure of restraints on your skin combined with the feeling of comfortable helplessness that accompanies it, or the smell and warmth of an armpit or foot on your face and the feelings of humility it brings.
sadOsam: Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?
Wolfram: Over the course of my whole life the kinks that have been most consistently present have been diapers and bondage. I remember being fixated on diapers since I was as young as 4, and constructing crude crotch harnesses out of embroidery thread held in place by file clips attached to my taint or scrotum when I was 13 or 14 years old. Beyond those I’ve enjoyed things like spanking and wearing lacy things for a while and still experiment with new things like watersports and armpits. In play I can be a bit of a brat but overall I am usually pretty submissive and love taking orders and being told what to do.
sadOsam: What kind of guys do you like?
Wolfram: In terms of body I like slim guys, muscular guys, average guys, and guys who are a little chubby. I also prefer clean cut guys but as long as the terrain’s not too rugged I can get into it! Personality’s a lot harder to define, but as long as someone can keep up with me that’s a good start!
sadOsam: What was your hottest experience until now?
Wolfram: It’s a difficult choice but one that really stands out to me was the first time I met a dom in person. I visited him with another sub I knew, and when we arrived he took us to his basement where he had set up a small dungeon, stripped us, spanked us, and then blindfolded me and tied me down to a padded table. He edged me a little every few minutes while playing with the other sub, but the excitement of the scene and finally getting to experience being tied up kept me aroused the entire time. I had expected to like bondage but actually being tied up was so much more pleasurable and relaxing than I had ever expected. Finally he untied me, pulled my ass to the edge of the table, pushed my knees up to my shoulders and fucked me hard. It felt so good that my entire body was tingling and I couldn’t get up for a good 10 minutes.
sadOsam: Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?
Wolfram: That’s another hard one! There’s a ton of things I want to try eventually but lately I’ve really been fantasizing about being tied up, blindfolded, gagged with some kind of open mouthed gag and left as a diapered urinal at a small gathering or play party or something like that. It’s a bit much at the moment considering I don’t have too much watersports experience but the idea of kneeling in a puddle of piss wearing a full diaper has been running through my head for weeks now!
