Why do you like …. FISTING ?

sadOsam: You are into fisting for a longer time now. Why do you like to get fisted and why is that such an intense feeling?

Ale Tedesco is an Italian porn actor and fist addicted

It is a sensation that is very difficult to explain… you feel your ass open and filled, then depends also what kind of fisting you make like punching or deep fisting. I am not so deep and I like to work much more on width. I like when the fist get out and my rosebud opens!

Brock is a pup and passionate fister / fistee from London UK.

It feels amazing! Fisting stimulates more than just a man’s erogenous zones. It stimulates his mind, overwhelming it with waves of pleasure that can be anything from mild and gentle to unbearable. It stimulates a whole range of nerves that cover his entire body, which is why it’s possible to feel the pleasurable effects of a good fisting everywhere from your limbs to your fingers and toes. It creates a powerful and intimate connection between two men, probably the most intimate way two men can possibly have sex.

Being fisted has given me orgasms that have washed delightfully over my entire body, anal orgasms lasting hours, floods of positive emotion and joy, and delights I’ve never experienced any other way. Done right, it’s produced the best and most complete releases of orgasmic energy I’ve ever felt. Know that feeling after sex when you’re so exhausted you quite literally collapse into a totally drained yet totally satisfied and completely happy slump? That’s what fisting often gives me!

Get fisted is like flying, I like the sensation to get penetrated by a dominant man, a demonstration of power, at this moment he gets pleasure opening my pussy and I feel euphoric and blessed.

Paul Gape is a real ass play and fisting lover from Ukraine.

Yeah… I was involved into fist for quite a long time for now, about two years, and i’d say, i have no regrets hehe

You know, being fisted is a personal feeling, kind of a very thick and huge cock in you, more rough and intense, not all the guys i’ve met have similar feeling when being fisted. Some like it wider, some deeper. In my case it is width. I am not a deep boy and depth is sometimes really painful, but width brings me so much joy, if even take the fact i’ve learnt to cum not touching my cock and felt inside cumming as well.

As for feelings, having loose and opened hole (mental and physical feeling), which is now fisted and wrecked with a hot stud, who tries to destroy it more at the moment are awesome! I feel i cannot hold it sometimes and cannot to squeeze it so it stays opened for some time. Also my ass became desirable for cocky tops 😉 cause they can fuck it as much as they can, as long as they want and they hear no «stop, slower, it hurts, lets change position” and so on, they use it, i have pleasure…who likes to be stopped at this moment?

sadOsam: Why do most guys into fisting prefer to get fisted than to fist? And what are in your eyes the sensations a fister have?

Ale Tedesco: For sure the sensation being fisted is not only mental but also phisycal. For the fister is more mental, but also the fister get pleasure seeing and feeling the sensation of fistee. One thing that I like both Top as bottom is to fist and put the dick inside together with the fist. In this way the fister get pleasure also from his dick and fistee from dick and hand sadOsam: What was the best and hottest feeling you’ve ever had as fister/fistee?

Brock: I don’t think it’s necessarily true that most fisters prefer being bottom to being top, but I think it’s definitely true that many, and possibly most, fisters want a shared experience. I love fisting as a top, and as a bottom, and by far the best fist sex I have is with men with whom I can share both types of play. That’s why I think you see so many versatile fisters, truly versatile players. It’s also why you see many fisters who choose not to enter sessions as top only, but will instead only play with versatile fisters (this is what some people interpret as being more bottom than top): that way, both men get to enjoy the delight of having a man’s hand inside them. Fisters who top I think have three main sensations. There’s the direct physical stimulation of feeling a man’s ass wrapped around my hand, which can feel soft, and wet, and warm, and slick, and and many other pleasant sensations. There’s the visual stimulation of seeing my hands slide into a beautiful hole, seeing a man swallow up my hands and perhaps even my forearms, and seeing his body react in all kinds of ways to the power of my touch. And there’s the psychological stimulation of having such control over another man’s sexuality, of having the power to bring him such joy and such pure sexual energy, through what essentially is the most intimate connection I believe two men can possibly have.

Paul Gape: Hmm… This is kinda good and sometimes hard to understand, for me especially, those guys who are only fist bottoms. I am versatile in fisting, i want to fist holes too, to give away that same pleasure i have while being fisted, to show guys what fist is, that is not that awful, painful and disgusting stuff. I think it is mental condition when you are only bottom/top. Also lots of guys are afraid for their holes, that this will be loose, no one will fuck them of having such one, top will have no pleasure, but from my experience i assure you it is total bullshit.

As fister you have lots of emotions, espesially you see your work from aside, what are you making out of bottom’s hole, how you destroy it, how it opens and bottom’s passion, as he gives it to you for that.

sadOsam: What was the best and hottest feeling you’ve ever had as fister/fistee?

Ale Tedesco: Best feeling it as been double fisting as fister and fistee. I like to have and to see ass completely open!

Brock: As a fister, the best feeling I get is seeing my bottom react to my touch. Seeing him squirm, or moan, or writhe, or beg for more, this is deliciously hot and turns me on enormously. Better yet, seeing a bottom react in a way that tells me he’s becoming overwhelmed by sensation – the so-called body orgasm or anal orgasm – excites me even further: because I know how amazing it feels to be delightfully overwhelmed by a fisting, when I see that I’m giving that sensation to a bottom and see him react accordingly, especially if it’s a big and obvious reaction, it shows me that we’re making some terrific magic together! As a fistee, I’ve had some mind-blowingly incredible experiences in the hands of certain fisters. I was once fisted to completely ecstasy, and I don’t mean the drug: I mean to the point where it felt like my brain became overwhelmed by extreme pleasure and short-circuited, leaving me with the ecstatic and incomparable feeling of my whole body and mind being flooded with absolute joy. I think it lasted for at least three hours after the sex had finished, that feeling, and it was the most blissful and joyful and absolutely perfect thing I’ve ever felt. It was as if I’d been fisted to high heaven! I’m not kidding when I say it was the most wonderful sexual experience I’ve ever felt! I gave a similar experience to someone once: judging from his extreme reactions, and his superlative description of his own experience during and afterwards, he was feeling exactly the same ecstasy I just described! Must say it felt amazing to be able to give such joy to someone else as well.

Paul Gape: The best impression i have while being punched. It is damn awesome! My hole becomes so opened, i cannot even close it, that sloppy sound, when fist beats it, i want it harder and faster, and then i cum hehe

As a fister the best thing is to see how rosebud comes out… This is like a real rose flower borns in time-laps mode.

sadOsam: What do you recommend people that want to try out fisting, become fistable? What is important?

Ale Tedesco: Dont use chems! you must be in control of what is going on. If you feel pain you must stop. sometimes with chems some sensations are hiding. Choose an expert fister, you need to trust him and you like him as well!!!

Brock: You have to want it. You have to really want it to happen, and you have to want to experience the joy of a man’s hand inside you. As long as you think it’s impossible, or painful, or undesirable, then your mind is closed off; and if your mind is closed, your ass will be closed as well. Frequent practice, either with toys or with fingers, can gradually open you up physically, and this of course is essential too to training your ass to accept larger and thicker objects. But I think it’s the desire, the lust, the need to be penetrated, that makes the difference between a man who cannot yet be fisted, and a man who can be. And, of course, when you combine burning lust and desire with complete manual penetration, you end up with one hell of an awesome experience!

Paul Gape: First of all – no fear for fist =) You have to have desire to stretch your hole, it is not a simple task, i’d say, but if you really want it you will do it very fast, as i did. Very important thing is to learn how to relax yourself. You have to be prepared mentally, that you will be able to take big toys in your ass, for example. Then you will be able to take fists! To be fistable you need to play as much as you can for some time (as for me, it took me 3 months to take the first fist), with medium size toys to prepare your hole for much bigger sizes. You don’t have to rush and try to put the whole thing inside at once – only nice and slowly, without harming yourself. And if you took this challenge do not give up, otherwise you hole will get smaller again, and you will have to start over again. It is like in gym – training for results!

And i want to advise all the guys – do not break records! We do it for pleasure – so stretch wisely, and slowly, counting on your abilities.

sadOsam: Which of the fist lubes do you can recommend and why?

Ale Tedesco: : I dont like crisco, the smell is awful. I use J-Lube I think is the best one even if is not easy to clean from the floor!

Brock: There are essentially two common types, water-based and grease-based. I usually recommend using both together. For water-based, regular J-Lube is my choice, as it is readily available in many shops and is economical. There are commercially mixed lubes based on the same product, but if I have time, I’d rather just mix it myself. For grease-based, the traditional choice is Crisco: it’s commonly sold in fetish shops, it’s solid at room temperature but melts nicely at body temperature, it lasts a long time and is slick enough to allow for comfortable and repeated entry. There are also many accessories available, such as belt holders and sling attachments, designed to hold small tubs of Crisco for easy access during a session!

Paul Gape: Lube is one and only – Jlube. Its texture and quality is perfect, slippery, pleasant to feel. You can also use it with Crisco (add melted into ready Jlube), it will add some moisturizing and fat will make your hole more elastic. Also Crisco is pretty good with toys.