First things first. Should you not have visited our website recently, you may have found that quite a few things suddenly changed now. There’s a new name, a new layout etc etc. But don’t let that intimidate you. The structure is still very much the same. We just added a few small things 😉

Here we will explain some of the aspects of Kinkfinity to give you an easy time getting accustomed to surfing around and having fun on our pages.

Essentially it’s a little bit a mix of different social media, made into its own thing. You will find a global and your own timeline (or wall), where you can see what people are up to and post your own things too. You can add friends, follow people, and chat with them, enter groups and make your own, it’s even got classic style forums for discussions. Sounds neat doesn’t it? Let’s give you a little bit more details.

It’s right in the top bar and the menu bar 😉 Once you register and log in, that menu point will change into your profile pic, with several submenus to find the different stuff available to you.

To make your own profile you simply have to click on this link here. Or you can copy and paste it into your url bar ( )

There are several things to fill out when registering first. Naturally, we need the basics of any account.

Username, Email Address and Password. Afterwards comes the Screen name. It’s different from the username. Let me quickly explain how:


  • Will be used for login
  • Becomes part of your profile’s url
  • Final choice, not changeable

Screen name

  • The name under which you’ll be visible to others most of the time
  • It can be changed

This is done by many today, simply so you can still have your favourite used nickname everywhere.

We’re also going to need your age. Don’t worry, your birthday will not be seen by others, the only thing visible is going to be the year of birth.

After that comes your general area, so later on you can find other kinksters that may be around you. You can only input your country, but cities make the results more clear.

And now we slowly come to the sexy stuff.

First comes your sex, and then your roles. There are a lot of choices there, we know xD but don’t let that intimidate you. It is merely a multiple choice answer, and should you not know what you all want to cross, you can simply edit them later in your profile settings.

Last but not least comes your profile text. What do you want to say to your visitors? What should they know about you? Such things.

Then the only thing you still have to do is make the captcha test and agreeing to our terms and conditions, and you’re done!

Congratulations, and welcome to!

Once you created your profile and logged into your account, it’s time to see what all has to offer. Let’s have a look at the changed menu point.

Global Timeline

The default landing page after login. Also pops up when you click on your profile image. Shows you all the stuff all the users and groups have been up to.

Message Icon

Brings you to the message system page. Also notifies you about new messages.

My Timeline

Your own timeline, where all your posts are gathered. As well as a profile and menu overview.

Members Directory

Where you find likeminded kinksters with the search and filter functions.

My Friends

See all your friends, and when they’ve last been online.

Groups Directory

Where you find all the groups and can search from them.

My Groups

All the groups you are part of.

My Profile

See your profile in all its details and glory!


Log out

The default landing page after login. Also pops up when you click on your profile image. Shows you all the stuff all the users and groups have been up to.

Should you not be logged in or not have an account yet, the page will redirect you to a login/register window.

You have some filters and a search function in the bar above the timeline, should you want to see some specific things.

To the right of the timeline you will find information pop-ups and your own account sidebar. This sidebar has several menu points such as messages, notifications, and links should you want to edit your different profile and account settings. You also have a logout button.

The profile Directory allows you to see who’s around and who might be into the same thigns you are. There’s various filters to choose from.

Your timeline is the default page that’s shown to visitors when they click on your profile. It shows all your latest posts as well as your profile picture/name together with some info as post amounts, general area and age. From there they can switch to the different landing pages your profile includes.

You can see on the right side of the profile background header picture 3 buttons. These allow you to block, report and share a users profile (you might need to click away an advertisement for that depending on your browser settings).

The menu points in the bar are the following.

Follow / unfollow

These button allow you to follow someone to see his stuff popping up on the timeline.

Send friend request / Unfriend

Sending a friend request to someone, so he can accept it. And if a friend, a button to unfriend.


The page just described.


A page with your profile text and the interests you filled out during registration, as well as images and galleries you uploaded etc.


See who you are friends with.


See your followercrowd.


See the groups you’re part of

Upon clicking on more, they see the following.


See the forums you’re active in


See the media/pics you upload as gallery.


What you’ve posted recently.


The badges you’ve earned being active on Kinkfinity.

Your timeline is very similar to a visitors view of your Timeline. There’s a few differences though. You can make posts, and in the menu bar open the messages window.

On the right side of the profile menu bar you will also see a friend requests icon , a message notification icon and a general notification icon. Besides that, you have your profile image that upon clicking on it shows you various ways to edit your profile.

Here the visitors and you can see the various profile info you put in. They also can see a some of your post uplodaded profile and slider pictures.

You can edit all the info of your profile by simply clicking on the right of your profile menu bar on your profile picture.

These points will bring you to the edit menu.

On the left side of the menu, you can chose which points of the menu you want to edit.

The Group Directory lets you see all the active public groups on Kinkfinity. You can find interests and more.

You can also join them from there. If one interests you, select join. Note that some groups are available to join on accepted request or invitation only. Once you joined a group, you will be able to see what people are up to on the timeline there, and also find  that in your main too.

Of course, should you want to leave a group, it is as simple as going on the group profile, and selecting leave. 

There are three different kinds of groups.

Public Group

  • Any site member can join this group.
  • This group will be listed in the groups directory and in search results.
  • Group content and activity will be visible to any site member.

Private group

  • Only users who request membership and are accepted can join the group.
  • This group will be listed in the groups directory and in search results.
  • Group content and activity will only be visible to members of the group.

Hidden group

  • Only users who are invited can join the group.
  • This group will not be listed in the groups directory or search results.
  • Group content and activity will only be visible to members of the group.

If you want to create a group, go to the groups directory. There between the search bar and the shown groups you will see a bar where you can select “Create Group”.

Once you put in your group name and description, you can choose the kind of group you want to create, public, private or hidden.

Furthermore you can also decide whether your group should have chat functions, or if it  should have it’s own forum. And once that’s done, select your groups profile picture and the header/background banner for it. 

Last but not least, you can now send invitations to your friends for them to join your newly created group. Congratulations, you’re done!

The chat window allows you to keep conversations with fellow kinksters.

If you do not see the start new conversation window, click on the upper left corner icon where you will see “New Thread”.

This will allow you to send messages to other users. You can see your recently added friends profile images to quick select or put in the username manually.

You can also add more than one user to have a group conversation.

Subjects are merely optional.

On the lower left you have a settings button where you can chose whether you want email notifications and whether you want to disable the sound notification in your browser.

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