KINKFINITY

How long have you already been living out your kinky side, and how did you come to that?

Short answer: A little over 3 and a half years.

Long answer: My first real foray into kink happened shortly after I graduated from high school. I met up with a local Sir who I had been speaking with for a few months, and we had a wonderful, entry-level scene. After that, I was hooked.

I really came into my kinks when I moved to DC to go to college in the fall of 2015. Through my Recon account, I was lucky enough to meet a group of high quality Doms who introduced me to new things and helped me explore all of my burgeoning interests.

After that first year of unrestrained exploration, I started to hone in on what really interested me and fostered relationships with partners who were into the same things. I started going to a local spanking party, where I eventually met my Daddy Richard. For the last 10 months or so, I’ve been exploring what it means to be the “boy” in a Daddy/boy relationship with him. So far, it’s been a very exciting and rewarding experience!

Whats especially important for you there?

I place a lot of importance on the relationships that I have built within the DC kink scene. Some of my best friends are also my play partners, and my entire social life/friend group would look so different if I hadn’t discovered this community.

I’m also a bit of a hedonist, so I definitely value the amount of fun and pleasure that my kink life has given me over the years as well.

Do you have special sexual and fetish preferences?

Of course! I love Daddy/son role play, and I have a massive spanking/discipline kink that the role play often coincides with. I like other types of pain play as well, so things like: nipple torture, mild cbt, clothespins being placed all over my body, hot wax, and flogging. And my discipline kink extends beyond spanking. It includes things like corner time, mouth soaping, line writing, etc.

I also like water sports, bondage, and (when I’m in the mood for it) pup play. I also like humiliation, particularly when it’s tied in with the “boy” head space. Things like needing to keep my body hair shaven or being ordered to wear tighty whities/other boyish styles of underwear really get me going.

What kind of guys do you like?

On the physical level – kinda stocky guys with beards in their 30s and 40s haha. It’s become pretty apparent lately that I have a type, with a few men being exceptions to the rule.

Going a bit deeper, I prefer guys who have a more nurturing style of domination. Typically, I’m looking for Doms who are strict but very loving and affectionate. Although sometimes I am game for Doms who like harsher or more hardcore scenes. Also, we need to be able to get along outside of the bedroom. That’s key considering I rarely want a scene to be a one time thing that doesn’t develop into something beyond just a single hookup.

What was your hottest experience until now?

I’ve had plenty of really hot experiences, so I can’t really narrow down which one is the hottest. Instead, I’m just going to write about one that was pretty hot haha

This happened two winters ago, at the 2017 Mid-Atlantic Leather convention. I had a very lengthy session with a Dom who did a wide variety of things with me. He had me worship his boots, which was a super erotic and brand new experience. He also tied me spread eagle to the bed in his hotel room, blindfolded me, put me in a muzzle, and attached roughly 35 clothespins to my body. They were distributed evenly across my ears, nipples, cock, and balls. The pain gave me one of the most intense endorphin highs I had ever experienced. It really made my body feel like it was soaring. I haven’t experienced anything like that since.

Are there things/dreams you want to experience once?

I’m really interested in doing a school boy caning scene. Even though I’ve been experimenting with spanking ever since I started exploring kink, I have very little experience with caning. I think doing a scene like that, with me in the full uniform and a Dom acting as a school master, would be a lot of fun.