One of the key issues in BDSM has always been how to distinguish a healthy BDSM relationship from one based on abuse and exploitation. To do that, an agreement was reached back...

We need to rescue the word “sadist”. In the vanilla world it is often taken as a synonym of “cruel”, but in the BDSM culture we know this is not true. We...

Although much has been written about the different techniques used in bondage and sadomasochism, less effort has been put into systematizing the dynamics of a Dominance/submission (D/s) relationship. D/s is much more...

Among the many problems that can happen in a scene, panic attacks can be a serious one, especially if the Top doesn’t know how to handle them. They are more common that...

What happens in the skin, the nerves and the brain during a spanking, and how it can help you improve your experience. Does a spanking produce pain or just sensation? Some people say that...

Understanding the different sub-spaces and their neurological basis. BDSM stands for Bondage, Dominance-Submission, and Sado-Masochism, which are alternative sexual practices also called kink. Bondage consists in tying people up in exposed or provocative positions. Dominance-submission occurs when one partner becomes subservient...

If you are hoping for a simple recipe for master's here, I’ll have to disappoint you. While it is great to live SM as a master, it also demands a lot from...

The Dominant has control, decides what is to be done by or to the submissive. That control begins when the subs consents. The consent is the crux of the matter. The scene...

Hey there, Se7en here, today with a small collection of sexual safety facts / recommendations. Why the random? Well some of you are quite creative when playing, and if you look at...

Social distancing is the natural enemy of our libido. Yes, it is important to follow the rules of our governments to slowing down the infection rate of Covid 19, but I know...

If there is a cute ass which most of us know, it has to be Armond Rizzos back side. I know, as every one of you do, many subs who are admiring...

Last weekend we have had a short statement of the new Mr. Puppy Europe 2019 Puppai Buumi, who was representing the UK at the contest, in our Darklands review. But today we...

Whether it's for a smoother, cleaner more athletic look or the kinky act of shaving and being demasculated, many guys these days are choosing to forgo the fluff, prune their pits, pubes...

Hi Torsten. You're the editor of the Boner Magazine, a well known free magazine which is distributed in a lot of gay venues in Germany and the UK. Short time ago you've...

Breath control is used to include any game involving control or restriction of oxygen to the brain, whether by interfering with the breath directly or through pressure on the carotid arteries supplying...