Men new to the fetish life can be very hesitant, and when a man discovers his neighbor’s Recon profile and contacts him, he quickly realizes that delicate handling is needed.
Staying anonymous, he guides the new sub, slowly pushing him to do more, to obey. And to want him more and more. When they finally meet, the bonds are strong, and the new Dom has a sub very willing to follow him.
Often, it is knowing when not to use harsh commands and threats of punishments to gain the trust and devotion of a skittish sub.