Most of our fisting interviews have been more from the perspective of a fistee, but today we got a ‘top only’ with us. A guy who’s hands have become well known and have explored many asses, among them also well known cunts like Axel Abysse’s or Ashley Ryder’s hole. Let’s go on a journey and discover more on the needs, desires and the pleasures of a fister.

Hi BighandsFF. Since you’ve started to produce fisting scenes, your hands have become quite popular. Do you have really such big hands, and what make them so special to all the cunts facing them?

(laughs) Yeah, It’s been a complete surprise to me how popular they’ve become! It’s also a question I get asked frequently and guys often want to compare hand size with me, but I explain the name was always “big hands” not “monster hands”.

It’s rare that I get to play with other tops, but the feedback from guys that have taken my hands had always been that they’re bigger than average. One is also noticeably bigger than the other, but I think it’s more that my right hand collapses less than the size difference between the two.

As for what makes them special, I’ve no idea! All I can say is I love using them, FF is by far my biggest turn on (which usually shows in the videos). I’m very passionate about it.

What makes Fisting your main kink? Why is it such a turn-on for you?

I’ve been thinking about this a lot since starting videos and exploring my kinks. I’ve been ass obsessed for as long as I can remember; the porn I used to watch was almost exclusively anal, big toys and then fists.

It’s actually something I’ve only recently started to accept and realize is ok, that I have no real interest in another guy’s cock. It just doesn’t do anything for me; blowjobs, wanking, whatever. I’ve always been a top, but I think the realization was that a key part of the FF turn on for me was the pleasure I was giving, which loops back to the lack of interest in cock.

I honestly get so turned on knowing, seeing and feeling how much pleasure a guy is getting from my fists or cock.

Why fistees get their pleasure is obviously. But as a fisting top it has to be something different, as we haven’t any erogenous zones on our arms. Please tell us, what is the reason why you and me love to put our hands and arms deep into the cunts of guys?

For me, the turn on is the amount of pleasure I can see I’m giving. The best sex I’ve ever had is when there is a connection, and with fisting you need a strong connection. I feel it’s one of the most intimate things you can do with someone, there is such a large amount of trust required for it. The videos are often after all the warm-up, so It’s easy to think it’s just punching away, but there’s a great amount of skill and trust needed to get up to that part.

I honestly get so turned on knowing, seeing and feeling how much pleasure a guy is getting from my fists. One of my favorite positions is where someone is on his back and I can stare directly in to their eyes and watch all the small facial expressions as I work their hole. It’s not only a huge turn on to…

Yes, good FF needs time, and it needs also trust. It hasn’t to be the trust for life, but the connection is needed. I do not understand people who love to be in a sling of a darkroom with the need to receive fists of people they don’t know, and they don’t have talked with.

I can understand the thrill of this, in the same way someone would do the same being blindfolded as a cumdump or attending a glory hole. The anonymity of a situation can add to, or be the thrill of the encounter.

I am inherently cautious as a person though, so for me (not that I’m flipping to bottom!) I’d always have in my mind the worry of whether someone had filed their nails or knew the risks and limits.

I’ve been to some FF sex clubs/nights and have experienced fisting with strangers who I’ve just met and with mixed results. Sometimes it can feel functional rather than sexy. And other times there is the instant attraction, and instinctively you just click and have had the most amazing hot sex.

You are right, as cumdump for dicks, you don’t need a connection. But we’ve been talking about fisting. I was at many fisting parties and yes, we haven’t been all friends, and we didn’t know us, but at least we’ve been talking a wile or the fistee has known from others that they can trust me, that I know what I’m doing. 🙂

For me I wouldn’t, but I can see the thrill of an anon/blindfolded fist entering you. Perhaps also a certain skill level taking fists helps with that too!

Ok, but mostly these guys have a straight highway as cunt and bowel. But most of the asses are much more interesting, you need to explore them, you need to find a way to take the curves in a good way. You have to feel, to explore, but also tho think and at the same time you’ve to take care about the guy you’re into …. Aren’t that the things which make fisting so fascinating?

Yes!! One of my first ff experiences was a random Grindr encounter on holiday. I was with a sub/dom couple and after some toy play the dom encouraged me to fist him. My arm literally was swallowed to my shoulder! At the time I had no idea this was such a rare skill, it took a long time before I managed a depth like that with anyone else. Boys, if you remember me, get in touch, so we can play again 😅.

Yes they are! It’s actually one of the other things which got me hooked on fisting. The way everyone is different, both internally and also how they respond. The goal for me has always been to get the maximum pleasure out of their hole.

Oh, so you have met one of the rare black holes in the beginning of your fisting career? So did I. I think that was really a good start to get me hooked to fisting. But meanwhile I prefer the guys you can fist deep, but you still have the challenge to find the right way. Not the easy highway, but the interesting road over a pass. I think that are also the more interesting roads for a road trip on bike.

OMG it was immense, I was so anxious and nervous about it too as they were so experienced. They had a massive play box of toys and baseball bats too, it was a fun night and looking back one which was ultimately very helpful on my journey and very memorable.

But I do agree, there is a skill to finding the right way, and it is part of what makes it and keeps it interesting, it’s always part of the challenge. And I think this applies to both new and regular partners in different ways. With a regular, I love how we explore and push a little more each time, whether it’s depth, width or punching (I’m greedy and love it all!). Seeing the progress with each session, or a reopening if it’s been a while, is hot and fascinating for both.

With someone new, there’s the extra excitement and uncertainly about whether you’re going to get on. The time between the start of play and the first time the fist goes it that is the most tense, it’s so important to make the bottom feel at ease and comfortable. But once that fist slips in, we’re away and no looking back.

I’ve learned so much about FF and what I enjoy, albeit in a relatively short space of time, too. What’s helped massively is living around so many people wanting to take a fist. I’ve been able to have a lot of practice and experiences since I started.

I think it’s also important to find out what you do enjoy about it, like you pointed out, it’s a question I’ve often been asked (especially by people not into FF) about what makes it enjoyable as a top. And this rarely has anything to do with how ‘talented’ the bottom is. Early on, I realized the fun wasn’t in counting punches or how many inches someone could take.

Oh, it has also its corporal sensations. You put your hands in a warm, tight and slippery environment. It feels good. But you are right, the brain, the thought to have someone literally in your hands, the challenge and the connection … the combination of all these makes it very special and also satisfying. You don’t need any erogenous zone to get a fulfilling feeling. You have been talking also about punching. Could you tell us, why you love to do it?

To be honest, I love punching as much as I love stretching for width or depth. Fisting to the elbow or doubles. It really depends on how the other person is responding to the way their hole is being worked! So much of the satisfaction is comes from the response, the feel and also visually seeing how well worked the holes become.

That said, the sensations for me are completely different. With punching, the feeling when the guy is pushing back out, that extra resistance for the last few strikes. You know they’re on the edge of what’s feeling great. Also the feeling once you’re past your forearm is also a favorite, the pressure build up when it becomes so intense around your arm that you could almost be wearing a tourniquet.

I can imagine it has also happened that a fisting session has become bloody. Can you tell us what exactly happened, and hod did you and the fistee react at that moment?

Yeah, it occasionally happens and when it mixed with lube it often looks like a murder scene! You also start to know some guys are more prone to a little than others, but you just stop and discuss it. Although, as the expression goes ‘shit happens’ and even the most experienced guys can still have a little something still in there, especially if you’re going deeper. For me, it’s very much up to the guy I’m with as to how to proceed, ultimately unless the bottom isn’t 100% comfortable and relaxed than you won’t be having the best session. Some guys just don’t feel comfortable and others are happy to have a touch up clean and carry on, it’s all good with me either way as long as they’re happy. I’m very aware and appreciative of all the effort that goes in to the prep for a fisting session to happen; all the diet, clean out and training that’s come beforehand! I ‘just’ have to have some trim nails, and I’m good to go, so will always follow the lead of my partner whether they want to continue or not.

Often if there comes a little greeting from the fistees digestion, mostly the fistees have much more bad feelings with it than the fister. Of course, I prefer if a boy is totally clean, but as you said, shit happens … But do you understand guys who really like to do fist play in combination with scat play?

I don’t know if understand is how I’d describe it, but I accept people enjoy that as their kink. Much in the same way some people are disgusted by rosebuds (or fisting!), it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Personally, I don’t think it’s for me. Although it’s not something I’ve tried, it’s also something I’ve never felt much desire to. But who knows, desires change and evolve all the time. Certainly no kink-shaming here – as long as everyone is having fun! Speaking of fun, I do love a fisting session with lots of laughs; there are some guys that just can’t stop and it’s infections. I really don’t take it too seriously, I like it to be lighthearted and fun.

Fun is the most important while playing with guys. 🙂 You’ve mentioned the rosebuds, and it seems you really love them. Can you tell us about the attraction and fascination of prolapse?

Good question! And to be honest, I’m not even sure where the fascination came from, perhaps because fucking one feels utterly incredible. Also, I think, as I touched on in the last answer, tastes change. I don’t think it was ever as interested in them for as long as I remember. It’s more something that’s evolved. Some guys are keen to train for bigger rosebuds and prolapses, I think that’s added to my interest in them too. I know I’m not great at training for a first fist, with life and everything else going on I rarely have time and certainly don’t have the hand size best suited to it. But I love training beyond that, deeper and wider or pushing for more punches.

Now you’ve really to tell us about some of your best ff experiences and tell us, why these are so memorable.

Oooooh, now this is a tricky one! So actually this is something which comes up a lot with guys asking to meet but then doubting themselves as to whether they’re experienced or ‘good’ enough. I’m not a competitive person myself, but find it really fascinating to see.

I completely get the want and desire for people to set goals around how much they want to take, whether it’s width or depth etc… And it’s also hot to track the progress of it all, but for me, I don’t find it a good marker as to how good a ff meet is going to be. Just because I can lose my arm past the elbow, doesn’t mean it’s going to be a hot meet, if that makes sense?

Back to the question though, and to slightly separate out the best ff from most memorable, there are so many things about each meet which make them great. Of course, some stand out, like the first time I got shoulder deep and the first time I doubled someone. Because shoulder deep came so early on it, I didn’t really have any anticipated build up. Doubles were something I’d been looking to do for a while and almost started to become frustrating as I started to actually look for someone who could do it, rather than just enjoying the play and seeing what might happen.

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