Ok, so you’re either a teen or living/travelling under circumstances where you can’t have any obvious fetish tools lying around, or can’t afford much. Not to worry, because with a little bit of craftiness, you can still essentially do most that kinky people do in general. With what do you achieve that? Lets have a look.

1. Hankerchief, Fabric and socks


Hankerchiefs make excellent blindfolds. They can also be used to shut your sub up as a gag. Same as any larger piece of fabric really. Socks are often even more humiliating, when they’ve been worn before. And long socks can replace the one or other piece of rope. Speaking of that:

2. Rope


Your trusted friend in fetish. You can surely let a larger bundle of not too thick rope lie around unsuspectingly. And it can be used for so much. To tie people up, to pull on someone’s balls or dick. Ohh speaking of torture. Did you know rope makes an excellent whipping instrument? If you want to be mean, you can also make a thick bundle of knot at one end, that ought to hurt without harsh injury risk. (Note: Just don’t use that garbage household string that’s very thin and breaks apart into what could be used as dental floss. A good improvised string for example is shoelaces. Good quality, nice on skin. Some also use paracord )

3. Stick


You got a plastic stick? Or wooden one? You got a cane.

4. Zip Ties / cable ties


Something any computer/laptop person can have around. And tbh many should use more when I see their homes. But that’s not the only use they have. They zip everything. Wrists / Ankles / Fingers / Toes as improvised cuffs, balls as torture rings… Lots of possibilities. Just be sure not to get the thinnest ones. They can rip your skin. And don’t make them too tight. Same as you wouldn’t with handcuffs. Oh and also have a good pair of scissors at hand.

5. Duct / Duck tape


Ahhh our good old friend. Most people have a roll lying around somewhere, simply because of its practicality. And it makes excellent bondage material. You can tie someone in pretty much every position in a few seconds. Even attach them somewhere. Use it as blindfold, or gag. Make someone’s fists into useless mittens, create a makeshift plug harness. Or mummify someone completely.

6. House Foil


Another hidden bondage material. Best used in combo with tape like the one above, it can add quite the fun 😉

7. Pen


The pen is a mighty tool. You can dominate one’s mind with it. Especially when writing humiliating things on their body. And even more when it’s waterproof.

8. Shower


Installed in pretty much every apartment and hotel room, not only can playing in there be sensual, but also intense or humiliating. You can soap each other up and enjoy rubbing each others bodies. Or put someone in there on his knees and piss on him.

9. Headphones


Always usable to occupy your mind with sounds. And make you not hear what’s around you. If you’re really “evil”, you could even put on some hypnotic suggestions on play while you do other things to your sub.

10. Food


People always say don’t play with your food. But let’s be honest, they use it as a mind play constantly. If you’ve done a good job and treat yourself or somebody to something nice. Or resist taking something until you’ve done something. Or punish yourself in misery by not eating something proper. You can do the same with subs. Humiliate them by letting them eat on the floor. Give them something nice if they’ve done good. Or punish them with flakes in water or piss if they’ve been bad. Or really want the humiliation.

11. Phone Camera


In todays age, exposure is a currency. And a humiliation kink. Take a photo with your phone of someone in a precarious situation and when you show them again, bring them to blush and go into a headspace. Or tell them it’ll be uploaded somewhere and make them even hornier knowing their kinkyness gets exposed and shown. Or order them to take a photo in a certain situation. There’s so many ways this tool can be used.

12. Your Mind & Body/ Role Play


No tool makes BDSM what it is more than your minds. When the dom sets the scene just right, and brings the sub in the headspace, you can dominate him without absolutely any other tools. Use him as a foot stool, let him worship your feet and body. Tell him what he is and should be used for, and use him as such. Bring him into his role. Accept this role. Do as he says, do even more, worship and serve him as best you can, and bring in the effort, let him see how much you want this to be and happen, how you want to be used.

Make squeaky or animal noises, slowly lure each other into pet headspace, get deeper into it, enjoy the primalness of the moment. Use your body to pin him down. Struggle as you get pinned down, and at some point cease to resist and accept him as your Dom. Present your submissiveness to him. Enjoy your win as Dom and take him as you wish, leaving him no option but to take him as you want him to.

There are so many possibilities of role play that rely entirely on you and your partner, nothing else. You just have to open up to each other and explore each others minds.

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